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Mindfulness Daily Check-In November 30, 2017

User Profile: Artemidesia
Artemidesia November 30th, 2017

Hello wonderful Mindfulness community! smiley How are you all doing? heart

Practicing mindful driving can be a powerful antidote to the driving-related problems. As with any activity, being mindful while driving means first of all focusing attention on what we're doing right now. There are many experiences that can anchor our attention in the present when we drive, such as:

~noticing what we see in front of us

~feeling the movement of the car

~being aware of physical sensations, like the feel of the steering wheel in our hands

~sensing the movements we make to pilot our car

~hearing the sound of the road and the wind

Present-focused attention in mindful driving is coupled with an attitude of nonjudgmental openness to the experience, just as it is. This openness while driving includes practicing acceptance of the things we can't control, like the volume of traffic, whether we make a green light, the actions of other drivers, and so forth.

Acceptance when driving to be extremely helpful. We often add so much stress to our drive by fighting things we can't change. For example, there are countless times we might've silently (or aloud) cursed a stop light for turning red, or another car for "getting in my way." When we deliberately let go of the need for everything to work out exactly our way, much of the stress and anger we experience can dissolve.

"Acceptance" while driving doesn't have to mean liking or condoning something. We don't have to convince ourselves that other drivers don't make mistakes (as do we), or that we don't care what time we get home, or anything else. All it means is that we don't add unnecessary resistance to what is.

Some people might be concerned that meditation while driving could be dangerous, which would be true if the practice were about adding an attention-grabbing task on top of driving. But mindful driving means bringing our full attention to the act of driving—simply put, actually doing what we're doing. It's the opposite of our tendency to drive mindlessly, miss exits, be distracted on our phone, etc.

Let me know your thoughts below! yes

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 November 30th, 2017

@Zayb4you14

i find driving mindfully is a very safe way to drive, paying attention what the car in front of us is doing, the road signs etc. if somebody is overtaking inappropriately i say to myself, yeah, i used to do that as well or he must be really in a hurry. works.

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User Profile: Artemidesia
Artemidesia OP November 30th, 2017

@amiablePeace77

That's a very positive way of handeling things! I'm glad that you're already being mindful while driving. Kepp it up! smiley

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User Profile: CoinFountain
CoinFountain November 30th, 2017

@Zayb4you14

I approve of everything in this post. :)

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User Profile: Artemidesia
Artemidesia OP December 1st, 2017

@CoinFountain That's very sweet of you! Thank you for participating in today's check-in! ☺

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User Profile: Lexloveslife
Lexloveslife December 1st, 2017

I'm feeling alright, I was busy all day so I didn't really have time to pay attention to my emotions on a deeper level. I'm considering this a plus because I'm usually absorbed in my negativity. Wishing the best to everyone!

User Profile: Compassionatelistener108
Compassionatelistener108 December 1st, 2017

Acceptance when driving to be extremely helpful. We often add so much stress to our drive by fighting things we can't change. For example, there are countless times we might've silently (or aloud) cursed a stop light for turning red, or another car for "getting in my way." When we deliberately let go of the need for everything to work out exactly our way, much of the stress and anger we experience can dissolve.

While learning about the traditional or eastern cultures view of mindfulness, this was one of the most critical aspects. I can personally say it is amazing to see people in my city that is rather large and has a tremendous number of road rage incidents, remaining calm as opposed to being reactionary is literally a lifesaver. I do have to admit that when the traffic comes to a screeching halt and I actually put the car in Park on the highway along with everyone else, music does keep me occupied for a while 😬. I am still a work in progress according to my good friend (:

User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver December 1st, 2017

@Zayb4you14

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You're so right about it Z. And I'm mindful while I drive wink Because if you aren't mindful about your surroundings, probably driving may become a challenge for you.

Good post. Loved it.