Detachment
I've been detaching myself from everyone, because I feel like it's the best way to achieve my peace and for their well-being as well. I know I hurt them in some ways, so one thing I did was to detach myself from them. I feel bad about it, but at the same time I feel relieved because at some point it helps me relax and calm my mind. Do you think I did the right way?. I rarely talk to them(specifically my friends) unlike before when I used to hang out with them everyday. Right now, I feel like I'm gradually trying to remove them from my life without even them noticing it. One reason why I did this was because I find it hard to open up my problems to them, and there are also times where I'm being left behind. I always asked them how are they doing, listen to their random rants and everything, but they barely check on me. I feel like they don't notice my pain, well maybe because I don't really show it. Idon't this is the best option, but for my peace and their well-being I had to do it. :))
@discreetSummer3549
The best expert on you, is you. So whatever you decide to do for you is always the best option in that moment. And you can change it, if the situation changes.
I'm sad to read that you don't feel safe with your friends. That you don't feel that you can trust them to be there for you when you need. This is indeed painful. Take some time for you.
@discreetSummer3549
For now, it's important you prioritise yourself but don't isolate yourself completely, we all need support and to be able to open up 💖
