I can't let myself talk myself out of this! I need someone to yell at me!
For over 5 years, I've been wanting to start doing Historical European Martial Arts. I dont know much about it, but I want to learn and it seems like something fun that will really help me in many aspects of my life. Tomorrow, a HEMA instructor said I could come watch in on a beginners class. I need to go, but I am terrified. I am so shy and so awkward, and I am terrified. Help!!
@orangeBunny2144
what are you afraid of you can watch the class and see often when classes break things down it will be easier to learn then you expect. there is no obligation or judgement in showing interest in this. I used to talk myself out of going to things like that and guess what the opportunities dry up...
if not now when... you will come up with other reasons next time to not attend... there is no one but you to blame if you do not get another chance
hope that motivates you.
@orangeBunny2144 You've got to go! I had never heard of this, so I checked it out and it sounds so awesome! Go go go! The instructor invited you to watch, I bet everyone there will be polite and friendly. You've waited 5 years already! Don't let another 5 years pass you by! You said that this will help your future and that's a really good motivator.
@orangeBunny2144
Good for you for stepping outside your comfort zone! Just breath, you got this!!
Let us know how it goes.
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