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Why do we sometimes miss people who hurt us?

User Profile: SoulHeaven
SoulHeaven July 27th, 2025

Most of us face this issue that we miss those people who hurt us but sometimes the reason isn't clear to us. 

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 July 27th, 2025

@SoulHeaven

Hey there. I'm sorry that you're going through these complex emotions. But I've learnt about 2 concepts while navigating through my own feelings that have helped me deep dive into the psychology behind this- Stockholm Syndrome and Trauma Bonding. 

We fall for people despite them hurting us. We know they aren't right for us and keeping a safe distance is the only logical resort, but it's hard to stay apart anyway. You aren't alone. If you'd like, look these terms up. 

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow July 29th, 2025

@SoulHeaven I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Please know that you're not alone in this. 🤍 Sending lots of love to you! ❤️❤️

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User Profile: SoulHeaven
SoulHeaven OP July 30th, 2025

@fossilfellow Thanks a lot for the care and love💛

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User Profile: AwkwardPixie40
AwkwardPixie40 July 31st, 2025

I totally get this. I miss my ex husband who controlled ne for 9 years. But don't know why!!

User Profile: AwkwardPixie40
AwkwardPixie40 July 31st, 2025

I totally get this. I miss my ex husband who controlled ne for 9 years. But don't know why!!

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User Profile: SoulHeaven
SoulHeaven OP July 31st, 2025

@AwkwardPixie40 

And that's really strange that we miss someone who hurt us.

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User Profile: AwkwardPixie40
AwkwardPixie40 July 31st, 2025

We damaged souls should stick together

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User Profile: SoulHeaven
SoulHeaven OP July 31st, 2025

@AwkwardPixie40 sure

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User Profile: AwkwardPixie40
AwkwardPixie40 July 31st, 2025

Keep ur head high

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