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2025 Week #20 Weekly Goal Sharing! (Monday 05/12/25 - Sunday 05/18/25)

User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle May 12th, 2025

I welcome anyone to commit to a goal here today. 

But importantly, talk about getting it done..... or why it didn't happen yet.

To praise each other for our efforts and wins.

While supporting each other through trials and setbacks.

And to continue trying and not give up.

Remember: 
Every Goal should be considered "Worthy".
Never belittle your achievements and be proud of yourself for your daily accomplishments!
Whether they be Complex or Simple.
Getting out of bed is a good day..... Good job I say!

Share your goals today, for support and encouragement.

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Do Your Best and Get Your rest.
Things are usually much harder then we think. Do your best. Be kind to yourself and Be kind to others. 

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And Any Others. If you want to be added/removed to/from the tag list, let me know. 😃

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 12th, 2025

If you can't move forward,

anchor yourself....

you have made progress and you know it!

hold fast, anchor yourself, 

know your are better today than you were before because of your efforts

But you are tired of trying, to keep moving forward, that's ok.

Anchor yourself until you feel better again, 

Don't lose your grip..... You've done well.


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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora May 12th, 2025

@IsayUncle :) 

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 12th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora

Thanks.
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Back at 'Ya!
Have a great morning and a beautiful day too!

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User Profile: Enthenia
Enthenia May 12th, 2025

Wait for my grade on the final assignment and then enroll in the next course. 

Try not to let the double standards, lack of leadership and hypocrisy at my work get to me.

Keep the animals happy.

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 12th, 2025

@Enthenia

Good goals. 😊

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 12th, 2025

I wonder if the most common dissatisfaction in life is not having a person, physical person in close proximity that one can talk to and trust.

Perhaps that's the description of loneliness.

I also wonder if it is our own vulnerabilities and fears that keeps our tongues tied.

Or is it our words, emotions, ideas and feelings that will be met by others, with, judgement, dismissal, belittlement, cynical criticism and general dissapproval by everyone we know and associate with.... 

To be without a single champion, to see our strengths, without causing jealousies.
And see our stupidities without causing hateful judgement. 

We can not and must not blame ourselves, because champions are rare, and hard to find.

WE MUST BELIEVE IN OURSELVES UNTIL..... a unicorn or a champion crosses our path. (whichever comes first)

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Keep building yourself into a champion. The world needs you.


User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 13th, 2025

i think i am losing..... my whole body stays sore.... i'm tired of tryng.... 

DREAMS.... too little, too late. 

NO - NO - NO - Regain core balance today!

i am so confused. just a really bad spell. it will pass. i'm so tired. take a nap and then regain balance chores. i can't quit, i can't go on. I MUST GO ON. 

Such a pathetic Post
I should delete it.

But, no..... i only have friends here that won;t judge me harshly.
For that, i  give thanks and with friends snd gratitude comes strength.

it is the first day of trying again. But no/maybe yes...... im so tired of trying with no family, no friends to see. (virtual friends, the loved exceptions). 

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora May 13th, 2025

@IsayUncle yep you have us here ^-^<3 I hope you never feel the need to hide your feelings<3 It's okay to find things hard, we all do, there's no shame in that. It's incredible how much you get done even when things are so hard<3 All your efforts count, no matter how small they feel like to you. You're the coolest, today, tomorrow and always!! 

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 13th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora


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You're the coolest! You're a Yeti, and I'm a W--Mart special! 

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora May 13th, 2025

@IsayUncle both cool u_u 

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 13th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora

🤣😎😎😂

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 13th, 2025

6:14Am: The fight starts - morning chores. 

User Profile: Enthenia
Enthenia May 13th, 2025

Still no grade for the resubmitted assignment but I was able to register for the next course. It's Linux and I'll probably have to do a lot of it at home since I think I will have to download something. It's getting steadily warmer so the dog will have to stay inside longer. Not sure how I will take care of everything at home.


Right now trying to get all the miscellaneous stuff at work done. 

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User Profile: Enthenia
Enthenia May 14th, 2025

So I read the course overview. No downloading. Looks like most of it will be online labs which means Ican do them at work when I get tired of the job.

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 13th, 2025

I'm still not doing well....

BUT.....

I reached out to one of my 3 sisters....

The only one I trust with my feelings (a blessing). I can't say we are close but we are brother and sister with no animosity against each other... (another blessing).

We talked, I feel better.

The VA called today and we set up some video consultation meetings..... this is good too.

I'm drinking gin and tonics doing housework. It's the best i can do at the moment. Tomorrow morning i will see if i'm a winner or a loser... Being a loser for the past 2 days makes it worth the try.


User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 13th, 2025

I understand hurt feelings but cannot tolerate hate speech/actions.

Hurt is Hurt but Hate is just hateful with no resolution or purpose but selfish justifuication.

It is a very thin gray line.... But it is there. Be aware and try not to cross it for your own peace of mind. 

JoRu

User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 13th, 2025

TW ... Alcohol

A medium buzz got the dishes done.

I'm going to try a glass of ice water to start some laundry and make a bed.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora May 14th, 2025

@IsayUncle hi, how are you feeling now? 

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 14th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora

Not good, I guess i got tired of trying.... to the extreme., like something broke inside of me.

I literally have been sleeping just to walk around my disaster and ignore my dogs, get something to eat  and go back to sleep. Repeat, repeat, repeat.

I haven't drank much.... just 2 yesterday for an effort at a boost.... got the dishes done. But i haven't been drinking or doing any drugs to cause this type of shut down. 

Just thinking about , maybe starting now.... makes me want to go lay down.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora May 15th, 2025

@IsayUncle That's okay, it'll be okay<3 Taking breaks is okay and sleeping it off is okay too :) Maybe it all just got a bit too much<3 

I hope you allow yourself to rest without guilt. I have no doubt you'll bounce back once your energy returns<3 I'm here if you want to talk about anything. 

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 15th, 2025

@BlueDarkAurora

Thanks for all the happy stuff! 🤪.

I hope you have a great day today.

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora May 15th, 2025

@IsayUncle hope you're feeling better ^-^

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User Profile: IsayUncle
IsayUncle OP May 15th, 2025

@cloudySummer

Thank you for your quiet support. 🙂. I hope you are doing well. Have a wonderful day. 

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