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The Monotony of Chores

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IsayUncle November 21st, 2022
A SPACE FOR WRITING AND COMMENTING ABOUT FUNCTIONING.
The Monotony of Chores
dull, tedious, and repetitious; lacking in variety and interest.

It seems the smallest chore or task can shut me down for an entire day. I don't know how it gets in my head like that. I often feel pathetic and pointless but know I must go on. One way I do this is just to write down my chore or task to do. It's a first step and it helps me to commit and focus.

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You are invited to share your stories about functioning through the daily challenges.

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IsayUncle OP November 25th, 2022

5:17PM TASKS COMPLETED!

6:37pm: Log income and tally with expenses for gains or losses.

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IsayUncle OP November 26th, 2022

At ten o'clock last night I finished my back-log of Monotonous Chores and Tasks. As corny as it is/was to have to write it all down here, it really helped a lot to have other members offer support.

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One of the reasons I log my efforts here is so others can see that it is ok to struggle and and to even fail a lot. I do feel kind of weired talking mostly to myself here (but not completely ❤️) but it's worth it because I believe the smallest sense of accomplishment is a powerful form of anti-depressant. And I'd like others to embrace that too.

This thread has served it's purpose for me but please continue to post about how Monotonous Chores shut you down, or Completeing them lifts you up. 💜 I'll respond (and hopefully others will too) when I/we see the posts. 😊

My next thread will be about my battle with "ROUTINE"😖😣
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mytwistedsoul November 28th, 2022

@IsayUncle I think it's great that you got caught up on things! I totally agree with how getting things done gives that feeling of accomplishment. I feel that with doing yard work. Plus it helps to be able to see what was done. I actually went through and organized a closet today. I'd been putting off for over a year 😅 I used to be a crastinator but then I went pro 😁


Seriously though this thread of yours helped 👍

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IsayUncle OP November 29th, 2022

@mytwistedsoul

HaHa - you're a real Pro! Congratulations on the closet. A daunting 1 year nemisis conquered. _1669687747.image.png

Good job😃. Glad this helped, breaks the monotony a little.

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mytwistedsoul November 29th, 2022

@IsayUncle Thanks! They say to work with your strengths 😁 Looking forward to seeing your new Routines thread too

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IsayUncle OP November 29th, 2022

@mytwistedsoul

Sometimes though... very little strength to work with lol. But work with what we've got, absolutely😊

My routine thread has been a 6 month task in the working. 2 years ago... divorced. 1 1/2 years of scrambling and regrouping.... going any way the stongest wind was blowing, as long as I stayed afloat and tried to steer a course. 6 months ago I started to to get control of the craft. Now I know what my daily/ weekly and monthly obligations are. A routine is on the horizen, I'll let ya know.

7 cups and the support here got me this far. 💜


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mytwistedsoul December 1st, 2022

@IsayUncle Sounds like you've regrouped in a good way though! It takes time to figure out what ways work best. I think you're off to a good start! :)


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IsayUncle OP November 30th, 2022

another day.... blah.... blah.... blah.

9:11am. Clean kitchen and dishes. Done!
9:47am: Sort paperwork

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IsayUncle OP November 30th, 2022

Paperwork chore DONE!

10:45am: Make chocolate candies.
11:10am: Remove passenger tire from car.

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sahal97 December 1st, 2022

@IsayUncle

I know how it feels! One thing that helps is "eating the frog" or doing a hard task first thing in the day. This is supposed to give you relief for having finished the most difficult task and build momentum for the rest of tasks of the day. But sometimes just the thought of eating the frog fills me with so much dread that I do not even feel like getting out of bed.

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IsayUncle OP December 1st, 2022

@sahal97

Thank you. I love these little quips and quotes. They are so helpful for me. The car frog got away from me yesterday. I should have ate it first, for sure!

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IsayUncle OP December 12th, 2022

just checking

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mytwistedsoul December 22nd, 2022

@IsayUncle

Just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas 🎄
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IsayUncle OP December 22nd, 2022

@mytwistedsoul

Thank you. Merry Christmas to you too. _1671702087.image.png

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mytwistedsoul December 22nd, 2022

@IsayUncle Thank you! 😊

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charmingEast0413 April 1st, 2023

I feel the same 😅

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IsayUncle OP April 1st, 2023

@charmingEast0413

That's OK, it happens. But I hope you get a little something done today. It's like.... UGH, and then magically seems to feel better.😉

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