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Why Slowing Down Can Accelerate Goal Attainment

User Profile: Hope
Hope January 18th, 2024

Hi everyone, this is a topic I have recently reflected on and I think most of us do not reflect on this enough. Slowing down can supercharge your progress!

Think of it this way:

  • Rushing leads to a blurry strategy. Taking time to map your route, identify detours, and set realistic milestones makes your journey smoother and faster in the long run.

  • Slowing down lets you zero in on what matters, leading to deeper engagement and better results in each step.

  • Taking your time allows you to invest in every action, ensuring each one contributes meaningfully to your goals.

  • Constant rushing burns you out. Building in breaks, prioritizing sleep, and managing stress keeps your energy reserves topped up, making you more resilient and persistent.

  • Speeding can leave you blind to your "why." Slowing down creates space for reflection, helping you reconnect with your purpose and keep your actions aligned with your values.

I too have been guilty of trying to achieve my goals in the minimum amount of time humanly possible and it rarely works! Trying to go for a 1-hour walk every day when you don’t have the habit of doing a 10-minute walk once a week is setting yourself up for failure. Doing a 10-15 min walk 3 times a week for 6 months is better than doing 1-hour walks for 1 week thrice in 6 months. 

Remember, progress isn't always a race. Enjoy the journey, one mindful step at a time!

What is something you are trying to achieve where you can benefit from this slowed down approach?

General examples:

  • Physical activity goals
  • Weight-related goals
  • Health-related goals
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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 January 18th, 2024

@Hope yess I recently had some similar thoughts. It is important to know when to slow down. My goals in categories in reflection response:

Physical activity goals: I need to keep moving but the thing is I'm not very motivated. So for now I try to get myself on any kind of moving activity but counting them all as moving not to put too much pressure on myself and stop all together 

Weight-related goals: I need to gain weight but can't push stuff into myself to not feel bad. So aiming for rather more small portions then big ones and respecting when my body says no to things not to feel bad.

Health-related goals: trying my hardest to not get an even worse bedtime then I have now and move slowly towards a healthier one

User Profile: thoughtfulmomma
thoughtfulmomma January 19th, 2024

@Hope

When I started seeing a therapist for my anxiety issues, I just wanted the answer.  Just fix me now so I can move forward with life.  It was very short-sighted of me.  It's not just about someone giving me the answer. Like cheating on a test, giving me the answers doesn't help me at all.  It gives me a band aid for that exact moment, but doesn't help me understand what's going on long term.

User Profile: KatePersephone
KatePersephone January 29th, 2024

@Hope
What is something you are trying to achieve where you can benefit from this slowed down approach?

to gain weight and to get into uni through more efficient studying.

User Profile: calmingsun111
calmingsun111 January 29th, 2024

Wow, ok. Thannk you for bringing this topic. I took a lot from it. :))

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 29th, 2024

@Hope I can't possibly slow down any more♿♿♿

😂😂😂😂

User Profile: Savagelilqueen2024
Savagelilqueen2024 January 29th, 2024

I would like to progress and get back into college this semester coming up and working on myself and keeping my relationship going with my boyfriend and Jesus as well.

User Profile: Zeraphim
Zeraphim January 30th, 2024

What is something you are trying to achieve where you can benefit from this slowed down approach?

Prioritizing my goals, what to focus on, breaking it down, and finding my "why" to keep going. Figuring out how to cope with setbacks and with adjusting goals relative to how I'm functioning that day. Remembering that things can get better, that positive results can come from reaching goals, and that hopefully a sense of pleasure and reward will be possible to experience along with it.

User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 February 5th, 2024

@Hope

Weight loss is one of those things they pressure you to rush but that's unhealthy for your body and it drives the whole instant gratification mindset which will burn you out and demotivate you before you can even start shedding weight. I've slowed down and without the time-sensitive pressure, I am more inclined to work out, and frequently.