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Dealing with Adult children

User Profile: Letconnect
Letconnect January 31st, 2024

Hi all,

This is related to how to deal with the pressure of adult children who always complain about doing office problems, household problems, dealing with pressures and complaing about your parestyles

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 January 31st, 2024

@Letconnect

The reality is many adult children can really test our patience.... maybe they do things we told them was a bad idea.... 

several play the victim that if we only parented different they would be....( insert whatever here)

I saw a quote is a psychology magazine that i repeat to young adults/ my adult kids too. 

" parents sometimes do thing they maybe should have done differently but in the end focusing on blame game is NOT going to get the child where they want to go."  

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User Profile: MistyMagic
MistyMagic February 12th, 2024

toughTiger6481 I read that too and it makes sound sense.

Blame does not help unless in a legal setting. Otherwise, it is always best to pick up the pieces and move on. Complaining may help us for a few moments but then we still have the problem better to as NASA says 'work the problem'!

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Listening - One Step At A Time!

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