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What to Expect When You're Expecting!
by MistyMagic
Last post
 September 24th
...See more What to Expect When You're Expecting: Tips and Resources Whether you're pregnant, planning to be, or supporting someone who is, it’s an exciting (and sometimes overwhelming) journey. Here's a basic guide to what you can expect and helpful links to get you started. Share with us your journey and any tips or thoughts you have on pregnancy and parenting! ------------------------- General Tips for Expectant Parents 1.  Schedule Prenatal Care * Once you have had a positive pregnancy test or think you may be pregnant then that is the time to make an appointment with your doctor, as soon as possible. They can be your first point of call for confidential and professional care and advice. * Regular doctor visits ensure that your baby is growing properly and allows you to discuss plans, options and concerns. * Tests to expect: * Ultrasounds (to monitor growth and anatomy) * Blood and urine tests * Glucose screening (to check for gestational diabetes) 2. Take Care of Your Health * Nutrition: Focus on a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains, and prenatal vitamins (especially folic acid and iron). * Avoid: Alcohol, smoking, excessive caffeine, and unpasteurized foods. * Exercise: Light to moderate exercises like walking, swimming, or prenatal yoga can help with stamina, mood, and delivery preparation. * Hydration: Drink plenty of water daily to stay hydrated. 3. Learn About Labour and Delivery * Research options like vaginal birth, caesarean section, or water birth. * Take prenatal classes to prepare for labour, delivery, and postpartum care. 4. Prepare Emotionally * Hormonal changes can lead to mood swings; don't hesitate to seek help if you feel persistently anxious or depressed (possible signs of prenatal depression). * Involve your partner or support system in the journey—attend appointments and classes together. 5. Plan for Postpartum Life * Research breastfeeding basics and consider lactation consultant resources if needed. * Stock up on essentials: diapers, baby clothes, and postpartum care supplies for you. 6. Stay Informed * Learn about pregnancy stages: trimesters, fetal development, and common symptoms like nausea or swelling. * Keep an open line of communication with your doctor for any concerns. ------------------------- Helpful Resources and Links * General Pregnancy Guidance * What to Expect (Official Site) [https://www.whattoexpect.com/] * March of Dimes - Pregnancy [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkLlPEDWdnBwIAAokM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016580/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.marchofdimes.org%2Ffind-support%2Ftopics%2Fpregnancy/RK=2/RS=XcMs1vVhA7DkRk5niTTk1yLMlLQ-] * Nutrition During Pregnancy * Mayo Clinic - Nutrition and Weight Gain During Pregnancy [https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle] * Prenatal Classes * Lamaze International [https://www.lamaze.org/] * BabyCenter - Prenatal Classes Overview [https://www.babycenter.com/] * Labor and Delivery Preparation * The Bump - Birth Plan Template [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkOYxnDWdnHAIAl0IM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016488/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thebump.com%2Fa%2Ftool-birth-plan/RK=2/RS=kv8SKtjL7n6puIQ2vsiSuweVbp4-] * Childbirth Connection - Labor Comfort Measures [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=Awr.oGmUDWdnIwIA.1kM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzMEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016532/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fnationalpartnership.org%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2023%2F02%2Fcomfort-in-labor-simkin.pdf/RK=2/RS=6y1YrO1Esb41Rf7nAXYYgZYraDc-] * Postpartum Support * Postpartum Support International [https://www.postpartum.net/] * KellyMom - Breastfeeding Resource [https://kellymom.com/] * Apps to Track Pregnancy (easy to google lots of different apps)) * Ovia Pregnancy Tracker [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrLAC27D2dn6wEAp78M34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736017083/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.oviahealth.com%2Fpregnancy-app%2F/RK=2/RS=Aq7Aq.9x_6NXd38lIw52BrAnmK8-] * The Bump * BabyCenter [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkMR7ZD2dnDAIAlJQM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736017114/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.babycentre.co.uk%2F/RK=2/RS=Xb.kKMywOuMUgSCwVN.fkHFxpmc-]
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Are You Coparenting? Introduce Yourself
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 September 18th, 2025
...See more Welcome to the Parenting and Pregnancy Community! One of our community topics is coparenting. For those who are familiar with the concept, co-parenting is a remarkable journey of collaborative parenting after separation or divorce. It's an approach that brings together separated or divorced parents with a shared goal: to provide the best possible upbringing for their children. This community space serves to connect with others who understand the joys and complexities of co-parenting. Are you a coparent? Feel welcome to: ✨ Introduce Yourself ✨ Share a little about your coparenting situation or journey ✨ What are some challenges you would like to discuss and gain support for?
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Parenting & Pregnancy Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
 June 5th, 2025
...See more Welcome to the Parenting & Pregnancy Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply to this thread and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of Jan 2024 (updated by @MistyMagic) @daydreammemories @Iyyana @KindCatEars @Maxisthebest @MistyMagic @tealPapaya5453 @tommy @Truth22
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One tired mommy
by tiredmommy91
Last post
 7 hours ago
...See more I am a wife and a mother of 2, with 2 bonus kids. I am just so tired! I feel like all I'm just here to take care of my kids. I am married, but I get barely any help from him where the kids are concerned. Really the only help I get where he is concerned is the discipling. Everything else is left up to me. I am so overwhelmed. Honestly, I've tried talking to my husband about it and tell him I need help, but it goes in one ear and out the other. I really can't even get a conversation out of him. I feel like my needs are being overlooked while I make sure everyone else is taken care of. I am so depressed it's not even funny! At this point, I'm still here because I feel like if I wasn't, my kids would have nobody to take care of them. That's literally the only reason! I am just so tired, overwhelmed, and angry at myself for letting myself get this far down!
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Pregnancy
by ladyylouu97
Last post
 September 29th
...See more I suffer with bipolar and anxiety disorder why do I feel so depressed to be pregnant I feel so guilty about it! I am happy to bring a child into my world but pregnancy itself has me feeling so rubbish
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I dont know
by Moonllv
Last post
 September 26th
...See more Me and my girlfriend are gonna try for a baby in the next week but im really scared and nervous and excited to be a dad but like i dont know how to actually feel. Any advice for a first time dad would be much appreciated.
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What to Expect When You're Expecting!
by MistyMagic
Last post
 September 24th
...See more What to Expect When You're Expecting: Tips and Resources Whether you're pregnant, planning to be, or supporting someone who is, it’s an exciting (and sometimes overwhelming) journey. Here's a basic guide to what you can expect and helpful links to get you started. Share with us your journey and any tips or thoughts you have on pregnancy and parenting! ------------------------- General Tips for Expectant Parents 1.  Schedule Prenatal Care * Once you have had a positive pregnancy test or think you may be pregnant then that is the time to make an appointment with your doctor, as soon as possible. They can be your first point of call for confidential and professional care and advice. * Regular doctor visits ensure that your baby is growing properly and allows you to discuss plans, options and concerns. * Tests to expect: * Ultrasounds (to monitor growth and anatomy) * Blood and urine tests * Glucose screening (to check for gestational diabetes) 2. Take Care of Your Health * Nutrition: Focus on a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains, and prenatal vitamins (especially folic acid and iron). * Avoid: Alcohol, smoking, excessive caffeine, and unpasteurized foods. * Exercise: Light to moderate exercises like walking, swimming, or prenatal yoga can help with stamina, mood, and delivery preparation. * Hydration: Drink plenty of water daily to stay hydrated. 3. Learn About Labour and Delivery * Research options like vaginal birth, caesarean section, or water birth. * Take prenatal classes to prepare for labour, delivery, and postpartum care. 4. Prepare Emotionally * Hormonal changes can lead to mood swings; don't hesitate to seek help if you feel persistently anxious or depressed (possible signs of prenatal depression). * Involve your partner or support system in the journey—attend appointments and classes together. 5. Plan for Postpartum Life * Research breastfeeding basics and consider lactation consultant resources if needed. * Stock up on essentials: diapers, baby clothes, and postpartum care supplies for you. 6. Stay Informed * Learn about pregnancy stages: trimesters, fetal development, and common symptoms like nausea or swelling. * Keep an open line of communication with your doctor for any concerns. ------------------------- Helpful Resources and Links * General Pregnancy Guidance * What to Expect (Official Site) [https://www.whattoexpect.com/] * March of Dimes - Pregnancy [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkLlPEDWdnBwIAAokM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016580/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.marchofdimes.org%2Ffind-support%2Ftopics%2Fpregnancy/RK=2/RS=XcMs1vVhA7DkRk5niTTk1yLMlLQ-] * Nutrition During Pregnancy * Mayo Clinic - Nutrition and Weight Gain During Pregnancy [https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle] * Prenatal Classes * Lamaze International [https://www.lamaze.org/] * BabyCenter - Prenatal Classes Overview [https://www.babycenter.com/] * Labor and Delivery Preparation * The Bump - Birth Plan Template [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkOYxnDWdnHAIAl0IM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016488/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.thebump.com%2Fa%2Ftool-birth-plan/RK=2/RS=kv8SKtjL7n6puIQ2vsiSuweVbp4-] * Childbirth Connection - Labor Comfort Measures [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=Awr.oGmUDWdnIwIA.1kM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzMEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736016532/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fnationalpartnership.org%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2023%2F02%2Fcomfort-in-labor-simkin.pdf/RK=2/RS=6y1YrO1Esb41Rf7nAXYYgZYraDc-] * Postpartum Support * Postpartum Support International [https://www.postpartum.net/] * KellyMom - Breastfeeding Resource [https://kellymom.com/] * Apps to Track Pregnancy (easy to google lots of different apps)) * Ovia Pregnancy Tracker [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrLAC27D2dn6wEAp78M34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736017083/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.oviahealth.com%2Fpregnancy-app%2F/RK=2/RS=Aq7Aq.9x_6NXd38lIw52BrAnmK8-] * The Bump * BabyCenter [https://r.search.yahoo.com/_ylt=AwrkMR7ZD2dnDAIAlJQM34lQ;_ylu=Y29sbwNpcjIEcG9zAzEEdnRpZAMEc2VjA3Ny/RV=2/RE=1736017114/RO=10/RU=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.babycentre.co.uk%2F/RK=2/RS=Xb.kKMywOuMUgSCwVN.fkHFxpmc-]
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Are reusable cloth diapers practical for everyday use?
by ParmodSB
Last post
 September 17th
...See more I’ve been looking into reusable cloth diapers and came across SuperBottoms while researching. I’m curious to hear from parents who’ve actually used reusable diapers day to day. How did you find the washing, drying and changing routine? Did you use them full-time or just during the day?
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What baby essentials did you actually find useful?
by ParmodSB
Last post
 September 11th
...See more There are so many baby products available that it’s hard to know what you actually need. What were the things you found genuinely useful during the first few months, and what did you end up buying but hardly using?
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New to this
by dynamicCircle6704
Last post
 September 1st
...See more Hi guys Im 5 weeks pregnant and I need help im.in [http://im.in] so much pain and don't feel well any tips
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3.4 tantrums
by blackswan404
Last post
 August 18th
...See more My son is 3.4 years old. Even when he is fed, or not sleepy, he starts tantrums. Without any reason? How do i handle this? I m a working mom. I m all stressed abt job and baby
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Need some help with my son
by deezasqueeza
Last post
 August 13th
...See more So my son just turned four and will absolutely not listen to anything me or my wife say. When we try to talk to him, he just constantly interrupts and often with things that are completely irrelevant to what we're talking about. (i.e. talking about having to wait to go for a walk, he'll yell and scream at the top of his lungs, then say something like "Orange cats are nice."). Flying off the handle any time either of us say no or try to set a boundary. Is this normal? My wife and I are losing our minds trying to counter it and handle it.
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New and Expecting Mamas
by gentleMaha7901
Last post
 August 5th
...See more Hi everyone! 🌸 I thought it would be nice to connect with other expecting moms and new mamas who are on the same journey. Whether you're pregnant, recently gave birth, or adjusting to life with a little one, I'd love to hear your stories. What has made you laugh the most? What's something unexpected you've learned? What small moments have become your favorite memories? Parenthood is full of surprises—some challenging, many heartwarming, and quite a few that make you laugh when you least expect it. Let's create a supportive space where we can share experiences, celebrate little milestones, exchange tips, and remind each other that we're not alone. Looking forward to hearing your funny moments, and beautiful memories. 💕
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Parents' Corner!
by jesusredeemedme2425
Last post
 August 2nd
...See more Parents, welcome to your new spot, your personal hangout, to discuss your kids (without identifying them, of course!), tips and tricks, problem areas, and more! It's a casual space to just relax and talk to other parents, without any topics in mind, without any formalities, and without any expectations. You decide the tone and what to talk about! You guys are in charge <3 Please tag your friends who are parents! <3 Note: Parents refers to people anywhere from pregnancy to people with adult children. Male, female, and everyone else! There are no limits here. Just please be kind and gentle and compassionate with each other :)
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Parenting
by seanmendonca2472
Last post
 July 24th
...See more I was hoping to get some advice on parenting me and my girlfriend some tips on parenting because we are getting her 2 younger brothers permanently as we are going to be there new parents we are going to first time parents

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Welcome to the Pregnancy and Parenting Support! We are so pleased you have stumbled across our little internet corner. Our community is here to support you through your parenting and pregnancy journey. From pregnancy woes and wins, milestones with your little ones, resources, general support, offering personal experiences, and more! Feel free to discuss anything and everything related to the life that is raising a child, growing a child, supporting someone who is growing and or raising a child, or co-parenting while raising a child. 


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