Chat Between @agreeableskies9889 and @carefulEast6708
Hey!!!! @carefulEast6708 ! We can chat here about anything if you want! I'm an open book! We can talk about deep stuff and interest and stuff!
How are you doing? I have been off 7 Cups for awhile..
@carefulEast6708
Me too lol.
Really good. I went on a date. Tried black lipstick and I'm studying religion.
I also rented an Airbnb for 2 days alone and it was really peaceful.
I went to a Renaissance Fair.
Got some dresses.
@agreeableSkies9889
This sounds great! How did the date go? Did you buy the dresses at the Ren fair? Are they long and flowy?
My family likes cloaks. We will go to the local Ren fair in cloaks. The last time I went, I was looking for a dragon themed belt buckle for my daughter. Didn't find one -- bought it off Etsy instead. She wore it to work at an ice cream shop, underneath the company tee shirt. The dragon kept tearing holes in the tee shirts. She said "it made me happy to know that there was a dragon underneath that tee shirt."
I am really glad that things are going well for you! Will send an update on me in a bit.
@carefulEast6708
So I think my marital crisis is over...I can't believe I survived that. I've been reading the anxiety and relationships forums, it seems like a lot of women go through something similar. He's unhappy so he cheats..when it comes out he gets mad at *her*, shows no remorse, tells *her* she's the one who has to make a decision..even though she's just been blindsided and devastated...the n when she doesn't end the relationship he starts *pushing* her to leave, still trying to put all the blame on her .. All very passive. Some psychologist needs to explain what's going on in these men's heads, if they're so unhappy in the marriage why they don't just leave...
Anyway, I can't believe I survived that. Thank you for being there for me! 🎉
Now I am back to my chronic issues ... Anxiety, depression, feeling like a failure, not handling irritations very well...the usual.🙄