Bpd and relationships

Me too tbh. I've been feeling so confused on what to do. I think I just ruined another good relationship. 😔

Im in the process of BPD ruing mine.

Same here 🤦🏻‍♀️

@BorderlineBarbie31

Hello there BorderlineBarbie31!

How are you lately?

I read about your concern, I understand that it can be difficult to have clear what isn't working and what goes wrong because influenced by the condition.

It's said that BPD can hit on managing the relationships, said that, with some coping mechanisms and some strategies, things can improve a lot 🙂

What do you think can be the negative aspect playing a role in your relationship?

Sending you good vibes 💙

I dated a person with bpd for a brief while. There were no problems with the disorder itself, it only ended because she was a cheater. In my opinion, anything else, a healthy couple can overcome it, just not cheating. So no its definitely not your bpd that ruins your relationships, maybe you just haven't found the right person yet.

There is someone out there that will try to understand your situation and will be able to comfort you everytime.... He/she will always try to make it work and will not let you go no matter what you do.... even if you try to break it off million times.....

I hope you will find that person soon.

@BorderlineBarbie31 Its super hard to have relationships while having BPD. it takes a lot to not destroy everything you built with the person. Keep trying, because its a hard journey but it is possible. We also deserve to feel love.

@BorderlineBarbie31

I found this quote on Google and I just love it so much. It was too good not to share! ♡

I was in a bad relationship because he would hit me all the time and if I try to go out and get a job he would beat me so bad that I cannot walk

@BorderlineBarbie31 God bless you