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What is Borderline Personality Disorder? (BPD)

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wonderfulHart1330 July 8th, 2018

What is borderline personality disorder?

An Internship Honors Project by wonderfulHart1330

Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) differs from the other Personality Disorders (PDs) in important ways. It is probably less stable and lifelong than other PDs. It appears to be less pervasive, meaning people with BPD tend not to present in the same way in different situations. This is curious, as pervasiveness is a central element of the personality disorders. People with BPD are also more likely to seek treatment than people with other PD diagnoses; the majority of people receiving treatment in specialist centres suffer from BPD, often with one or more other PDs.

The most prominent features of BPD are self harm/suicidality, emotional instability (unpredictable variations in mood, both sad/happy and angry/irritable), impulsivity (doing things on impulse without due consideration of the consequences) and disordered attachment (stormy relationships, very strong feelings of abandonment when a close relationship ends). It is the first two of these that most commonly lead to people seeking help.

BPD has no clear reason why some people experience BPD however more women are diagnosed with BPD than men, but it can affect anyone regardless of gender and background. Research into BPD have found that the following combination of factors can increase the risk of causing BPD, the factors are spilt into two categories, Stressful or traumatic life events and Genetic factors:

Stressful or traumatic life events

- Often feeling afraid, upset, unsupported or invalidated

- Family difficulties or instability, such as living with a parent who has an addiction

- Sexual, physical, or emotional abuse or neglect

- Losing a parent.

Genetic factors

Some evidence suggests that BPD could have a genetic cause, because youre more likely to be given this diagnosis if someone in your close family has also received it.

For a long time, there had been no effective treatment for BPD, there is still no fully effective treatment but evidence-based treatments have proven to help reduce the number of symptoms or the severity of the symptoms a patient had, but if treatment is not given by someone trained to treat BPD they can make the symptoms far worse

Methods of treating BPD:

There are many ways of treating BPD and these methods can be done by an individual or as a large group in sessions, normally known as a CMHT (Community mental health team). These teams are made up of a wide range of professionals which can include:

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The first method of treating BPD is Care Programme Approach (CPA), CPA is a treatment method used on cases of BPD that have moderate to severe symptoms, a CPA ensures that the treatment is specialist to the individual as there are 4 stages to a CPA

Stage 1 is an assessment of health and social needs

Stage 2 a care plan is created to meet an individuals health and social needs

Stage 3 is where an appointment of a care coordinator, who is usually a social worker or nurse, who becomes the first point of contact with other members of the CMHT for anyone on a CPA.

Stage 4 is when the overall treatment is reviewed – this is where the treatment is reviewed at regular intervals to make sure it is the best for the individual, and if it is not then any necessary changes to the care plan can be agreed by the individual and the CMHT.

Psychotherapy is another treatment type that is commonly used, as most treatments that will be below involve psychological therapy in some form. The main objective of psychotherapy is the it makes the individual gain a better understanding of how they think and feel, this is normally achieved by a psychotherapist discussing important issues and aiding with methods of problem resolution and attitude/behaviour therapy if required. Psychotherapy is normally done in combination with one or more of the following methods DBT, MBT, TC or AT.

DBT (Dialectical Behaviour Therapy) is one of the methods.

Signs and symptoms

Individuals who have Borderline Personality Disorder are diagnosed when there are 5 of the following 9 signs and symptoms are present. These symptoms can vary from person-to-person.

- Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Suicidal or self-mutilating behaviour are not included in this symptom by most doctors and psychologists.

- A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.

- Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.

- Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self- damaging (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). Note: Do not include suicidal or self- mutilating behaviour covered in Criterion 5.

- Recurrent suicidal behaviour, gestures, or threats, or self- mutilating behaviour.

- Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).

- Chronic feelings of emptiness.

- Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).

- Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.

What causes Borderline Personality Disorder?

The exact cause of Borderline Personality Disorder is not known yet, as doctors believe there is no single factor that causes it. There are 4 main factors that are believed to cause BPD, they are Genetics, Problem with brain chemicals, Problem with brain development and Environmental Factors

Problem with brain chemicals:

It's thought that many people with BPD have issues with the neurotransmitters in their brain, the one in particularly is normally serotonin. Altered levels of serotonin have been linked to depression, aggression and difficulty controlling destructive urges.

Problem with brain development:

Researchers can use used magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) scans to study the brains of people with BPD. MRI scans use strong magnetic fields and radio waves to produce a detailed image of the inside of the body. The scans revealed that in many people with BPD, three parts of the brain were either smaller than expected or had unusual levels of activity. These parts were: the amygdala – which plays an important role in regulating emotions, especially the more "negative" emotions, such as fear, aggression, and anxiety the hippocampus – which helps regulate behaviour and self-control the orbitofrontal cortex – which is involved in planning and decision-making Problems with these parts of the brain may well contribute to symptoms of BPD. The development of these parts of the brain is affected by your early upbringing (see below). These parts of your brain are also responsible for mood regulation, which may account for some of the problems people with BPD have in close relationships.

Genetics:

Genes you inherit from your parents may make you more vulnerable to developing BPD. One study found that if one identical twin had BPD, there was a two-in-three chance that the other identical twin would also have BPD. However, these results should be treated with caution, as there is currently no evidence that there's a gene for BPD.

Environmental Factors:

A number of environmental factors seem to be common and widespread among people with BPD. These include:

- Being a victim of emotional, physical or sexual abuse

- Being exposed to chronic fear or distress as a child

- Being neglected by one or both parents

- Growing up with another family member who had a serious mental health condition, such as bipolar disorder or a drink or drug misuse problem

A person's relationship with their parents and family has a strong influence on how they come to see the world and what they believe about other people.

Unresolved fear, anger and distress from childhood can lead to a variety of distorted adult thinking patterns, such as:

~ Dealising others

~ Expecting others to be a parent to you

~ Expecting other people to bully you

~ Behaving as if other people are adults and you're not

Facts/Trivias

BPD is less known than Schizophrenia and Bipolar Disorder, yet it is more common than both.

• 25% of people diagnosed with BPD are male, 75% are female.

•BPD increases the risk of suicide by 50 times.

•BPD affects a predicted 1.6% of adults.

• People with BPD are often underdiagnosed or misdiagnosed with other mental illnesses.

Help and resources

Nimh- BPD– Offers a wide range of information about Borderline Personality Disorder, including medication and living with BPD.

NHS- BPD– Learn the basics about Borderline Personality Disorder, including diagnosis, treatment and causes of BPD.

Mind.org – Borderline Personality Disorder – Learn about the stigma against BPD and real-life stories of people who live with BPD.

ChildMind - BPD – Information about BPD in children. (Teenshealth)

Sources

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/borderline-personality-disorder-bpd/causes-of-bpd/#.Wwlp_ojwaUk

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/borderline-personality-disorder/index.shtml

https://personalitydisorder.org.uk/borderline-personality-disorder/

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/treatment/

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/causes/

https://childmind.org/guide/guide-to-borderline-personality-disorder/

Questions for Forum Discussion

• Do you have any experience with BPD, either from yourself or a loved one, if so, would you like to share you experience with us? But only if you are comfortable!

• What type of support have you received or are you receiving from the people around you?

• How long did it take for a correct diagnosis to be given for you?, only share if you are comfortable to do so.

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User Profile: Ccali238
Ccali238 July 11th, 2018

Hello! I have experience with dealing with someone who has BPD because when I was working at my old job, I had a friend who was dating someone who I believed had BPD. He was very aggressive, mean towards her, impulsive, and just an overall sporatic person. She was telling me all the problems they were going through and I tried helping her by telling her the things she should encourage him to do because he cares about her. I knew the guy myself, and it wasn't as shocking to find out these things about him because it described his personality, which I have come to realize. They are still together, and I don't know how things are going but I wish her and him the best.

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User Profile: wonderfulHart1330
wonderfulHart1330 OP July 11th, 2018

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User Profile: melsue84
melsue84 July 11th, 2018

I suffer from BPD. I had some traits of BPD in my twenties, maybe earlier. I didn't know of borderline, or even notice my symptoms of BPD until I had to be next if kin for my mother, my best friend, and the only person who fully got me! She fell ill so fast and when she made it to hospital it went from bad to worse. Doctors told me she wasn't going to make it and that I needed to decide to pull plug and sign a DNR. My mom had a very rough,traumatic life full of abuse, addiction, and so much more than anyone should ever experience. She was still so full of love and light through it all. People judged her and shamed her, but she only gave them love back. I had her back always, she had mine. I made the decision to be selfless in the decision because my mom had already discussed this part with me. She was suffering, a machine keeping her alive. She didn't want that. I let her go. We had one last slumber party Nd she passed away next morning with only me by her side. In that moment something switched in my brain and my BPD came full blown to surface, along with some schizophrenia. Its hard to deawith and understand, but I promise we have so many good traits and qualities and love intensely. My fiance has stood by me and helped me understand it all while he tied to deal with the episodes and psychosis and mood swings. I love you, I hate you. Overall we have learned to cope and control things better than before. It can get easier. I have only little support, but its enough

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wonderfulHart1330 OP July 11th, 2018

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User Profile: Amelia3591
Amelia3591 July 11th, 2018

Hello. I have bpd. I've been misdiagnosed multiple times since I was 17. I have a narcissist parent still who has emotional control over me who made me convinced that I had schizophrenia and never let me get any help until I was 18 because she was ashamed of me. I've been told i had bipolar, general anxiety, social phobias, you name it. No medications or therapy never fit how i felt exactly. A few years ago I met some friends who had bpd and explained it to me. The disassociation symptom was the missing piece in my mental puzzle. Ever since I went back to the Dr and explained my situation again they felt bad that they didn't see it before. Almost every day I can't even look at myself in my mirror. I always thought it was lack of self confidence but it wasn't. The PTSD from my mom's abuse is an easy trigger. I can't trust anyone even myself most of the time. I have always felt like a character, not a human being. I've never fit in anywhere in life. I'm getting more stable and know what to do when i feeI a certain way way better but of course there's no cure and it gets so overwhelming constantly doing extra things just so I get back to reality. I'm 27 and I'm now just starting to understand myself.

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wonderfulHart1330 OP July 11th, 2018

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User Profile: lavenderCircle6714
lavenderCircle6714 July 11th, 2018

Youre really brave for posting your story. Anytime you need to talk you can message me :)

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User Profile: wonderfulHart1330
wonderfulHart1330 OP July 14th, 2018

Thank you @lavenderCircle6714, I hope you found some new information about BPD! (I personally don't suffer from it, but I know some people who do!) smiley

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User Profile: SourGummyPrincess
SourGummyPrincess July 12th, 2018

I haven't been diagnosed.. but I feel like I have BPD.. if my mother explained how it isfor her correctly then I definitely feel as if I suffer from BPD...

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wonderfulHart1330 OP July 14th, 2018

I hope all gets sorted out soon @SourGummyPrincess! smiley

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User Profile: Bubblzdancr
Bubblzdancr July 13th, 2018

@wonderfulHart1330 I appreciate this. Most people are ignorant and rude about it :/

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wonderfulHart1330 OP July 14th, 2018

You are very welcome @Bubblzdancr! smiley

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User Profile: wriststowine
wriststowine August 29th, 2018

I feel like I may have posted this before so apologies if I have - Does the up and down emotions cycle quickly in a day?
Last time I went to be treated for Depression, OCD and Anxiety I asked about the possibility of bipolar because I can go from "Everything is awesome!" to "Might as well stop breathing now" in the course of a single day. I was told that couldn't be bipolar because the cycle was way too quick, that it was most likely just bad depression. I had a bad reaction to the meds (made me feel like everything was a dream) and then fell out with the doctor so thats is as far as it went. But....from what I am reading it seems like Borderline is a possibility? Thank you in advance.

(not looking for a diagnosis, just wondering if i am on the right track)

User Profile: raindroporchestra
raindroporchestra October 5th, 2018

hello

i have been looking into a lot of communities and websites to try and figure out what illnesses i can relate to (i finally convinced my mom to test me for ADHD and she says we might try a few other things)

i've found quite a lot that i can relate to in different ways (but i know there can be some big overlaps)

in the description of BPD there was a part about how it is easily misdiagnosed as a lot of other illnesses and i just started thinking about it. could somebody with BPD explain how close is it to some other things like depression, bipolar, and anxiety? those are the main three i relate to before learning up on BPD

that's all

thank u

User Profile: crystalclearnow
crystalclearnow October 8th, 2018

@wonderfulHart1330

A very enlightening and informative read.