Personality Disorders Community Check-in: January 11th-14th, 2021
Heya amazing people!
I thought this was an important message to share: some days can be harder than others and it’s okay if these days are less productive, it’s more than okay to go easy on yourself on these days <3
How are you feeling today?
What is going well and not so well lately?
What can you do this week for self-care?
I can’t wait to hear from you all! If you’re not feeling like following the questions, that’s very okay you don’t have to, you can share what’s on your mind, you can say hi, you can grab a hug, whatever feels right for you! Remember that this is a safe place for you to share <3
Sending you all much love,
Waves ~
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How are you feeling today? - I feel better then I have been.
What is going well and not so well lately? - Something going well is I am starting to come around again, something not so well is I might need breaks on my car.
What can you do this week for self-care? - I would like to have a spa night. I haven't done one of those in awhile.
@Goldcherry2113
Hey there ! It’s lovely to hear that you’re feeling better than you have been ! It’s also great to hear that you’re starting to come around again and most importantly that you’re seeing it! As for your car, I hope it doesn’t cause any problem!
A spa night sounds like a nice thing to do! I hope you can schedule one sometime soon (or create one if spa aren’t open due to the whole situation)
Thanks for checking in, take care!
@Goldcherry2113 a spa night seems really good! thanks for sharing!
@LinearWaves
How are you feeling today?....Physically better...But, emotionally/mentally, kind-of staying stagnant.
What is going well and not so well lately?.....Feeling better physically since dealing with an issue that I finally got the much needed help for I needed.... Not so well, is still dealing with my newest "indoor" Fitness class attendance issues and not sure whats left for me to do to help things pick back up again there. Especially since we pretty much just started not too long ago.
What can you do this week for self-care?.....I've been in Self-care mode for several weeks (since right before the holidays)..And just coming out of that in the last week. I'm actually doing well in that department at the moment.
@PoliteOcean
Hey there Ocean ! It’s good to hear that you’re feeling better physically and got the help you needed, although I’m sorry that you’re feeling this stagnant mentally… When having uncertainties about things that are really important to us, it’s tough to be in a great place emotionally speaking… I’m really sorry to hear that it’s the case with your indoors classes especially despite all the efforts you put in them. I’m not sure about how things work and if that’s doable, but if you’re close enough with some people who attend your classes, do you think talking with them could be of help? (so as to know their view on things, what they think could be done and so on, especially if they’re only “consumers” of classes and don’t teach any themselves)
It’s great to hear that you’ve been taking good care of yourself lately!
Thanks for checking in, take care! I’m all heart with you and I hope your uncertainties about your classes can be slowly solved!
@PoliteOcean It makes sense that you're struggling emotionally. It is not easy to adjust to changes in your life. Thank you for sharing.
@LinearWaves
1. How are you feeling today?
Not good.I need a break where I actually have days where I feel good.
2. What is going well and not so well lately?
My car blew it’s engine 2 days ago.I can’t afford a new car.And I am moving with the family I live with at the end of the month.I can’t find my suitcases.I thought they were in storage but I can’t find them.They were some of the last fine things I owned.If I can’t find them, I guess someone stole them.
3. What can you do this week for self-care?
I can only do what I have been doing; meditation, walking, praying, taking care of myself and Chloe the cat.
@purpleTree4652
Hey there ! I’m sorry to hear you’re not feeling good today… I totally get you on needing a break from these kind of days and I hope you get one soon enough, hang tough!
I’m sorry to hear about your car.. I’m guessing it’s not fixable? Also I don’t know much about cars, but if the rest of the car is okay, could it be sold so as to start gathering money for a new one?
As for your suitcases I really hope you can find them again!
These are lovely things to do as self care, especially during bad days! I’m all heart with you and I hope things can be sorted out, thanks for checking in, take care!
@purpleTree4652 A lot of things in your life are choatic right now, but you are trying your best to cope with this hardship. You are focusing on the things that you can control and trying to be strong. I'm proud of you.
