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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: July 29th–August 4th

User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar July 31st, 2022

Hello, PD Support Community!

This is our last check-in for July as we enter August 💜 I hope everyone's been feeling well. Sending best wishes and happy thoughts your way—you're doing awesome!

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🔮 How was your week? How do you feel?

🔮 What is your biggest desire in life?

If you prefer not to answer these questions, feel free to share anything that's on your mind, say hello, or just ask for a hug. 💜 Always happy to hear from you.

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.”―Og Mandino


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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 July 31st, 2022

@SilverSeastar

1. How was your week? How do you feel?

My week was bad. I feel exhausted.

2. What is your biggest desire in life?

To have a nice job that gives me and my cat, Chloe, a comfortable life.

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User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar OP July 31st, 2022

@purpleTree4652

Hello, Tree. I'm really sorry to hear your week was bad. I hope you can find time to rest and feel refreshed. We're here with you, Tree.

Mhmm a nice job for a comfortable life ... that's the dream. I wish you and Chloe all the best 💜

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User Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean July 31st, 2022

@SilverSeastar


🌞 How was your week? How do you feel?..... It went well.. got in lots of Pool and swim time, and enjoyed the beautiful hot summer days~

🌴 What is your biggest desire in life?.....Just be Happy~

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User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar OP August 6th, 2022

@PoliteOcean

Hi Ocean 💜

Woooohoo! That's an awesome week, enjoy your beautiful summer 🌞

Absolutely, being able to experience happiness is important in life! 😌

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User Profile: TheBPDBaddie
TheBPDBaddie August 1st, 2022

My week was pretty neutral! Had a good balance between good and bad, I'd say, which is a win! Usually my mind can only come up with bad things, so yayyy!

My biggest desire in life is honestly just to be happy. This will come by finding a way to be a stay stable (emotionally/mentally, physically, spiritually, financially, etc!)

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User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar OP August 6th, 2022

@TheBPDBaddie

Hello 💜

A win to celebrate, yayy! I love the way you see it. Hitting a good balance and not drowned in all-negatives is huge for sure 🏆

Happiness, of course. 😊 You already know the way for you to be happy too, that's amazing! I agree, having stability in the many areas of our life would mean happiness.

You've inspired me with your answer 😮 thank you! I just read an article (https://hbr.org/2021/01/what-you-were-taught-about-happiness-isnt-true). The author came up with this definition for happiness:
Happiness is being able to ride the wave of every emotion that life throws at you, knowing that you can come out the other side just a little better than what you were before because you have the skills (focus, courage, curiosity), the resources (a positive mindset), and the support structure (a community) to make that happen.
I think it's really cool that this definition is similar to yours. 🌟 Cheers!

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User Profile: RoadLessTraveled
RoadLessTraveled August 2nd, 2022

I am having trouble figuring out how to be added to the tag list, can you please add me thank you

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User Profile: SilverSeastar
SilverSeastar OP August 6th, 2022

@RoadLessTraveled

Hello, I've checked the current tag list here and you're already in it! 😊

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