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Personality Disorders Community Check-in: September 3rd–September 9th

User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic September 4th

Hello, PD Support Community!

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💙 How has your week been so far?

🤍 What is a way that you've helped or supported someone lately?

If you prefer not to answer these questions, feel free to say hello, ask for a hug, or share anything else that's on your mind. 💚


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User Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean September 4th

@QuietMagic

Hey Magic~ 


💙 How has your week been so far?…. It’s been pretty well overall... I just came back from an amazing Beach vacation.. And I didn’t falter in jumping back into everything I needed to do (like I “sometimes” do). And got back on track with things quickly.~ 


🤍 What is a way that you've helped or supported someone lately?…. Off the top of my head, I attended another instructor’s Strength class on Wednesday. And there were Two women joining in, (one who was brand new & one just returning from a long injury). But I helped & supported both of them with getting their equipment set up.. And also explaining things to the new one, While giving her many “fist-bumps” between sets to let her know that she was doing a great job… (I figure it’s always a great way to help possibly keep the “newbies” in coming back)! 🤜🏼 🤛🏼


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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP September 6th

@PoliteOcean

Glad you enjoyed the vacation! That's a nice feeling that there wasn't a huge discontinuity between being on vacation and feeling comfortable doing things again

I'd feel really good if I were the newbie in the strength class. 💜 Having someone help me with the equipment alleviates confusion and not being sure if I'm doing things correctly, and the fist-bumps are like "someone sees my effort and cares, and I'm actually doing this right--maybe I can actually succeed at this and feel like this is the right place for me to be"

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User Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean September 6th

@QuietMagic

Yes absolutely! I hope that’s exactly how I made her feel!  (As well all the other Newbies that I do that with)! 🤜🏼🤛🏼

Team-work makes the Dream work (they say)! lol 


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User Profile: caringShoulder1357
caringShoulder1357 September 4th

@QuietMagic

It has been a great week with plenty of time with nature each morning.

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User Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean September 4th

@caringShoulder1357

What a beautiful photo~ So relaxing & peaceful looking 🙂

User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP September 6th

@caringShoulder1357

Wow, so many different shades of green 💚 I love the trees especially

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User Profile: Harmony8682
Harmony8682 September 5th

@QuietMagic 

This week has been ok overall it was nice catching up with some people. There are just some frustrations at work.

I helped someone at work who was struggling to find some paperwork on the computer system.

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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP September 6th

@Harmony8682

Hey, what kind of frustrations have been happening (if you feel like sharing)? Glad you were able to help someone find what they needed 💜

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User Profile: stormieandpaws
stormieandpaws September 8th

@QuietMagic

How has your week been so far?

week was  lots of ups and downs both physically  and emotionally 

🤍 What is a way that you've helped or supported someone lately?

have a person  offline that just needs to vent a lot i let her vent on the phone within set boundaries  she kinda a friend but i had to at times stop talking to her due to she crosses my  boundaries  but after a few months i allow her to call me again she said i helped her to see how boundaries  can be used so now she able to use them too 


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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP September 9th

@stormieandpaws

Hi, sorry it was such a rocky week. 💜 That's really nice that the person you've been talking with is starting to work with boundaries (both following them and applying them herself)

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User Profile: stormieandpaws
stormieandpaws September 10th

@QuietMagic

thanks been told i a good teacher and helper  even when i let go of my fears a good leader but that not very much big one i still working on slowly 

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