Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

DBTuesday: TIPP skills – a distress tolerance skill

User Profile: LinearWaves
LinearWaves March 2nd, 2021

Hey there everyone! We’re back for another DBTuesday and this week I’d like to discuss with you the TIPP skills. This skill is part of the distress tolerance category of DBT skills and could be used when wanting to reduce an extreme emotion fast. Basically the TIPP skills work by momentarily changing your body chemistry and this shift in feelings is supposed to create a shift in emotions too!

T for Temperature : Tip the temperature of your face/hands/body with cold water, by taking a cold shower or applying a cold wet clothes on yourself --- this is to calm down fast!

I for Intense exercise (unless not advised by your doctor or not possible due to an injury!) : engage in intense exercise that will get your heart rate up and expend your energy, by running, walking fast, lifting weights, jumping, playing football, dancing… safely! --- this is to calm down your body from the emotion you’re feeling!

P for Paced breathing : focus on your breathing, breathe deeply and try and breathing out more slowly than you breathe in --- this is to slow down your breathing!

P for Paired muscle relaxation : this one goes with the paced breathing, while breathing in, tense your body muscles and notice how this tension feels. While breathing out, relax and let go of this tension --- this is to calm down your body!

Discussion questions ~

What do you think about this skill? (had you ever heard of it? Do you think it could be useful for you?)

Are there other ways that you use to calm yourself fast when experiencing strong emotions?

Thanks for reading, don’t hesitate to share your thoughts about this!

Waves ~

@Adeline12345 @AlfAndthemachine @Alwaysinpyjamas @ambitiousVase1322 @autumnthemoth @Avocado22 @azuladragon34 @berrymimi @bestcase @caringPerspective41 @ChristmasGift @cyanPlatypus6370 @DamagedOne13 @DoggoMom @emerijourney @Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas @fireyseastar97 @FloweringBunny @Goldcherry2113 @GrahZeymahzin @Hadeel96 @heartycitrus @Heythereletschat024 @Hyacinth22 @Hydrangea03 @ImaginativePenny152 @indigoCup1959 @intelligentWheel627 @JoniGirl @K87 @LadyNikita @LavenderFlower @Lemino @LiliTwolsky @LoveTracker @MeeshyRB @MelG919 @missg @Mkmultra @nervoussmiles @Nubia87 @OneErased @optimisticMagic0014 @OrangePeel24 @Oxymoron6demon @Piggy @placidShade4261 @QueenBee03 @racqueldawn @Red789 @Rex0911 @Sher217 @sunflower2480 @Sunshine1920 @tranquilbear14 @Triscups @uniqueRose1689 @versatilePomegranate60 @WalkingCrow @YourCaringConfidant

10
User Profile: FinleyTews
FinleyTews March 3rd, 2021

@LinearWaves Thank you for sharing! This is certainly useful.

1 reply
User Profile: LinearWaves
LinearWaves OP March 5th, 2021

@FinleyTews

Thanks for your feedback, I'm glad you see it as useful!

load more
User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 March 3rd, 2021

@LinearWaves, The last one has worked for me, but I haven't used it much. I keep avoiding it for some reason.

2 replies
User Profile: LinearWaves
LinearWaves OP March 5th, 2021

@purpleTree4652

Thanks for sharing! It's interesting to see that even if the last item has worked for you, you keep avoiding it, do you thin there might be a reason for that?

1 reply
User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 March 6th, 2021

@LinearWaves, I have no idea.

load more
load more
User Profile: Mikababy10
Mikababy10 March 3rd, 2021

@Mikababy10

User Profile: Goldcherry2113
Goldcherry2113 March 3rd, 2021

Thank you for sharing!

1 reply
User Profile: LinearWaves
LinearWaves OP March 5th, 2021

@Goldcherry2113

You're welcome! I hope this can be useful!

load more
User Profile: Lou73
Lou73 March 9th, 2021

@LinearWaves

Thanks for sharing Waves :) Another one added to my notebook :)

I find cold water to be really great for grounding and dealing with extreme emotions <3

1 reply
User Profile: LinearWaves
LinearWaves OP March 12th, 2021

@Lou73

That's great to hear!

Water and mostly cold water definitely has something soothing and grounding about it, it's good that there are skills using that aspect!

load more