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Hi. I joined 7 cups about 6 months ago, but I believe this is my first time posting. When I initially installed the app, I was pretty excited about it and was looking forward to make some real changes in my life. But old patterns die hard, and I quickly forgot about it. After having an introspective morning that brought me to tears, I decided I needed to make an attempt at reaching out. I have a loving family, but no close friends. I haven't had any really close friendships since elementary school ( I'm turning 45 at the end of July). I hold a lot of shame about many aspects of myself and doubt I could be a good friend to anyone else, so I don't try to form more intimate platonic relationships. My fear of this kind of intimacy has made it hard to get much out of traditional mental health counseling too. When I'm face to face with someone, I find myself putting on an "act" of what I think they want or expect me to do or say with an occassional sprinkling in of my real self. I don't do it consciously most of the time, and I haven't had anyone actually call me out on it. Eventually, I'll realize what a sham it is (of my own making), and I'll come up with a reason not to go anymore. Long story short, I'm hoping the the anonymity of this format will allow me to be more open and honest. Perhaps I'll be able to learn to live more authentically, and form real supportive relationships. Thank you all for welcoming me.

@Hope Welcome to this lovely site, enjoy.

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Hello everyone, my name is Jordan. I hope to help create a positive environment here on 7 cups.

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@Hope I'm here to become more motivated!

Hey! I’m a listener and I would love to provide emotional support during any kind of difficult times. I am here to listen in a judgement free manner and give you the space to allow you to be your true complete self without any worry.