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Questions to Let Your Inner Leader Out

October 23rd, 2021


I believe there is a leader of humanity in each of us. So here is a set of questions for each of us to answer. You may answer one or more of the following questions in reply to this thread. Looking forward to getting to know you and the leader in you.



  1. What mattered for you the most in your early childhood days?


  1. What message would you like to leave for the entire earth through your life?


  1. What used to be your favorite area of cups when you first joined? How did your interests develop or change over your stay at cups?


  1. What do you like most about us, the 7cups community?


  1. What message do you have today for all the cupsers?


  1. What are your dreams on cups and beyond?


  1. What tips do you have for us to evolve as good human beings?



Activity: Respond to one of your peers in this thread with supportive words.


Read quotable words expressed by leaders of 7cups in the Living with Leaders Interview Series here

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User Profile: bubblingBreeze14
bubblingBreeze14 October 24th, 2021

@Fristo

What mattered for you the most in your early childhood days?

For me I guess my parents, grandparents and my sis mattered to me. I remember playing with my sis outside in our garden without a care on whether we play on the ground or on a tiled floor and sometimes going outside just to stay among the trees, play with rain and etc.

What message would you like to leave for the entire earth through your life?

I'd like to be recognized for my character and for what I give to this world. So one thing I'd like to say will be, "You can still be yourself and make a difference. Don't let anyone say otherwise"

What used to be your favorite area of cups when you first joined? How did your interests develop or change over your stay at cups?

When I joined I didn't know much of it. I started off with 1-1 chats and loved it. Mainly because I could actually help more people and make them smile, make them feel that they mattered and to hear them saying I had actually helped.

Afterwards, I found out the training guides and did them. Sometimes went to group support chats and checked what's going on (I had no idea about them back then 😃) Also I remember welcoming new listeners and members and being a part of the welcoming team (My first team!) It was great!

The next big milestone for me was getting verified. I remember looking forward to it and once it was done, I was waiting to see the results. I remember being at college amid the breaks logging in to 7Cups to see if there's any update 😃 Fun times... and when I finally did. Wow, I was super happy!

Becoming a verified listener opened up a lot of opportunities for me. I wanted to make sure that we provide high quality service. First of all because we're dealing with actual people and they life events. Being here and getting help matters to them a lot. I wanted to make sure anyone can come here and feel safe, and heard. More importantly receive quality support.

What do you like most about us, the 7cups community?

I like the way we help people, the trainings, the groups, discussions, forums, academy, etc. Well, let’s say I like them all. Overall the goal of our community is to support people and that’s the best part and the most admired part by me!

What message do you have today for all the cupsers?

First and foremost, THANK YOU! ❤️ Thank you for being here, for sparing your time for others, for opening your hearts and filling their lives with compassion. It means a world to them. I’m so proud of you all!

Secondly, I’d like to say You are amazing just the way you are and remember you’re making a big difference in this world. Enjoy your time here, learn more and keep changing the world for the best! People like you are what makes this world shine bright!

What are your dreams on cups and beyond?

Now this is a tough one… Well, my main goal here at 7Cups would be to support people. However, I’d love to become a leader and support this community grow, introduce more wonderful areas, to improve when needed, to make this community thrive.

Out of 7Cups my main goal at the moment is to start my studies (Postgraduate studies to be precise). I had to keep them on hold because of the pandemic situation, but looking forward to starting it and planning to work on a research that enriches the health system with the help of IT.

What tips do you have for us to evolve as good human beings?

  • You might have bad days and that’s perfectly fine. We’re humans after all. Just make sure bad days don’t define you. It’s just another phase of your life that teach you something different.
  • Try to understand others perspectives as much as possible. That’ll help us avoid conflicts and better communicate with them.
  • Trust and love yourself. You’re already doing everything you can.
  • Never stop dreaming… Your dreams are valuable and you can make them come true
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October 24th, 2021

@bubblingBreeze14 So very nice, breeze. Keep up the wonderful you.

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User Profile: bubblingBreeze14
bubblingBreeze14 October 24th, 2021

@Fristo

❤️❤️ Thank Youuu...

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User Profile: lyricalAngel70
lyricalAngel70 October 24th, 2021

@bubblingBreeze14

I loved reading your answers and amazing quotes. Thank you for everything that you do on 7 Cups. ❤

Wishing you all the best for your post-graduate studies.


Love,

-Angel 💜

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User Profile: WhiteRoses25
WhiteRoses25 October 24th, 2021

In my early childhood days I wanted friends who would love me not because my mother was well off. I wanted to see people for who they really were and I wanted to be protected from harm in any form.

User Profile: CalmWaves3939
CalmWaves3939 July 21st, 2022

@Fristo 💛

What used to be your favourite area of cups when you first joined? How did your interests develop or change over your stay at cups? 💜

To begin with, my favourite area to be in was the member rooms. I enjoyed them the most because of the sense of community and seeing everyone together and bouncing off each other. I also loved the supportive environment in the member rooms. <3 However, after a while, I found the listener rooms and I started being in them more often. From there I realised I clicked and felt like this is my place! I prefer answering questions and supporting people and I really love collecting resources to share :p I like to guide people and hope to become a quality mentor in the future to help support listeners on a 1-1 level and more frequently :) The listener rooms provided me with confidence when I was new to 7 cups and I am passionate about doing the same for others ✨ 💗

Waves x

User Profile: TheSpiderSystem
TheSpiderSystem July 21st, 2022

@Fristo

What message do you have today for all the cupsers?

Some people need to be told its okay and everything's alright but some people need to know the truth.

User Profile: NewYorker11
NewYorker11 July 21st, 2022

@Fristo

What do you like most about us, the 7cups community?

what i like most about the 7 Cups community is that it is a place and space for everyone to share their thoughts and emotions and focus on feeling better, getting better, and working towards positivity. the 7 Cups community is a great website and service to the world, no one is ever alone because of it!

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July 22nd, 2022

@NewYorker11 totally agreed, new! that's how i view 7cups as well.

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User Profile: SirenOfSerenity
SirenOfSerenity July 22nd, 2022

What used to be your favorite area of cups when you first joined? How did your interests develop or change over your stay at cups?


- When I first joined Cups, I would only deal with the chat both as a member and a Listener. I'm so happy I started attending Listener Sharing Circles and interacting with my Listener peers, it makes being a peer and Listener much more rewarding with a warm welcoming team behind you. I also enjoy the forums and all the self reflective prompts I've come across. There's so many sides of 7 cups to express yourself and interact with supportive and wise peers whether a Listener or a Member
User Profile: Zahraa000
Zahraa000 July 23rd, 2022
تضمين التغريدة The best thing for me when I joined in 7 Cups for the first time was Room 1-1 and for the moment I am very pleased to hear from the members 😀 As for my message on this earth I want more people to know their true value and why they are on this wonderful spiritual journey
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User Profile: BrightandGentleHand
BrightandGentleHand August 12th, 2022

@Zahraa000 That's a beautiful message! ❤️

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User Profile: BrightandGentleHand
BrightandGentleHand August 12th, 2022
What mattered for you the most in your early childhood days? Integrity - I particularly remember an event in Sunday school where everyone ran for doughnuts even if the teacher said you can only get one if you win. When I told her about it, she just shrugged it off so I talked to everyone, one table at a time. Sounds extreme now but I think that's pretty much how I still am right now.
User Profile: braveShade8118
braveShade8118 August 15th, 2022

@Fristo

  1. What mattered for you the most in your early childhood days? feeling accepted and loved.


  1. What message would you like to leave for the entire earth through your life? Stop putting labels and expectations on everything and everyone.


  1. What used to be your favorite area of cups when you first joined? How did your interests develop or change over your stay at cups?


  1. What do you like most about us, the 7cups community? Feeling accepted :)


  1. What message do you have today for all the cupsers? You are all amazing .


  1. What are your dreams on cups and beyond? my dreams on cup are to better myself, learn to understand, and express myself, and help others do the same.


  1. What tips do you have for us to evolve as good human beings? I repeat my answer from #2 Stop putting labels and expectations on everything and everyone. Let love guide you instead of fear and hate.


User Profile: NewYorker11
NewYorker11 August 15th, 2022

@Fristo

  1. What mattered for you the most in your early childhood days?

    getting along with my family and friends!

  1. What message would you like to leave for the entire earth through your life?

    always treat others with respect!

  1. What used to be your favorite area of cups when you first joined? How did your interests develop or change over your stay at cups?

    my favorite area of 7 Cups was the chat section, and this allowed me to build on my sociability and go to the group chats. my 7 Cups interests have not changed much, i am grateful for this community, as a member AND as a listener!

  1. What do you like most about us, the 7cups community?

    i love the 7 Cups community because it allows anyone to come and express themselves and their emotions, which can help them to cope with anything they are experiencing.

  1. What message do you have today for all the cupsers?

    please have a great day today, you are a great person!!!

  1. What are your dreams on cups and beyond?

    always treat people with respect, because you want to be treated with respect as well!!!

  1. What tips do you have for us to evolve as good human beings?

    to evolve as a human being, working on your own character and identity is a great goal, then you will be able to reach out to others.