Say what you'd most like to hear...
Sometimes we just need to hear a certain phrase for us to feel comforted and happy.
Say something to yourself that you'd most like to hear right now. 
I'd like to hear: "You're doing fine. Life is going at a different pace for you, don't compare yourself to others. Life will work out in the end."
@SilentSerenityy
That is so thoughtful Serenity. "I'm too busy working on my grass to notice if yours in any greener." Sometimes the best thing to do is focus on yourself and thank yourself for how well you are doing. Thank you for sharing that! I hope you are doing well. ^-^
@SilentSerenityy I really need to start living by this
You are a good person.
@crimsonMelon8700
Yus! You are a good person, Melon. Even through tough times, you have been strong, I am very proud of you for doing that. ^-^ Thank you for sharing, keep the pawsome self-care up!
"I love you unconditionally"
@iheartmydog
Lots of people love you, you are the reason somebody smiles, always remember that lovely!
@blossombreathe I'm not usually really emotional but It's been a tough week and reading your comment made me teary eyed. Thank you for taking the time to write such a kind comment and reminding me:)
@iheartmydog what a qonderful phrase it can heal most wounds could just them few words xx
I want to stay with you forever ❤
I'd like to hear that I'm not alone in my fight. I'd like to hear someone cares about how I feel while struggling with my addictions.
@SoniaGisel
There are lots of people dealing with additions. It is a difficult place to be and most poorly understood issue. What people often do not understand is what drives people there, and often it's not intentional. I really wish you could see how much I really hope you do well, and find your way out of this and become whatever you want to be. It's a lot of work, and I know you can do it. You have the whole 7 cups community for emotional support and I'm sure there's services. You can do it! And dont' worry about fall backs, it happens, it's a part of the journey, as long as you get closer to the goal, in general terms, that's success!
@SoniaGisel I care!I don't know you but I do.
I'm proud of you. Your doing great.
That I am a good mother and my hard work is appreciated and that I am loved and that I am important
@jr50
The fact that you are worrying if you are a good mother, is a sign of being a good mother; bad mothers don't think about their actions. All mothers can't do everything perfectly, mothers are humans and don't know everything and they aren't perfect. Do the best with the human you are. You're doing great!
@jr50
You are basically out of this world amazing as a Mom. What you have done, the sacrifices you have made, the tireless efforts during illness, your patience, not to mention your fierce protective nature, make you a blessing in a weary world. You are so important, you cannot imagine! You are appreciated, maybe not always by your family, but by the collective spiritual puilse of all mothers everywhere. You have been brilliant. Thank you for your gifts, because my child has to live in this world too, and your children make it a brighter place. You have done well.
Tbh, I don't want to be told what I want to hear. I'd rather they be genuine and sincere. Also, listing my qualities on their fingers won't get them anywhere. I know who I am. 
I got you. No matter what. I got you.
You matter just because you're you (not for any other reason)
@Avaray
Yus! Love yourself just because you are you. I hope you're doing well. ^-^ Thanks for sharing lovely!
@blossombreathe thanks blossom, surviving thanks xx hope you're ok also xx