Say what you'd most like to hear...

Sorry

You're not a bad person. You are just ill. You didn't do anything to make yourself ill. You didn't deserve it.

You are loved, people actually do care. I will hold your hand or give you hugs during difficult times. i will listen and support you emotionally.

I accept you, you are amazing and you are clever. I will use your right pronouns and tell me what you need to feel better. We will choose new name together or do you have any ideas? It is your name and you are going to use it. You are still you, no matter what your gender is and I will accept that you are boy. Even if it is a phase I will help you feel better.

It's okay. You're okay. You can be unstable; you can be hurting; you can be atypical; you can be scared. It's okay to feel these things. It's okay to be these things. I love you. I'll hold you. You can trust me. I want to help you grow.

I got my papers and can stay here for another year to see you graduate

@blossombreathe

"You've been accepted for the job" or at least "You've been invited for an interview"

Would really give me a giant morale boost since nowhere even replies to say I've been rejected or anything anymore, so oh well *shrug*

I'm proud of you for trying.

Don

It's okay to be where you are right now and It's okay to have setbacks. Life is full of mistakes. Its what we do with those mistakes can make the biggest difference in life. Know that all of your growth has been made at least partially possible by all those mistakes, setbacks, and pain in the past. Its okay to forgive yourself for the past and be content with whos here right now.