Almost a year later
It's been almost a year since I left my boyfriend of 6 years years my choice but he has an incredible way of making me feel like I completely ruined his and his daughter's lives even though we were both a part of the faults in the relationship. He never degrades me or says bad things but he makes me feel insanely guilty even though I was so unhappy I was crying every day
@courageousCup4720
Wanting to be happy and breaking off contact with others whom make you feel miserable in NOT something you should feel guilty about.
I am at a loss as to why some would rather live in misery then be alone. I think it is really tough when a child is involved in the relationship but again they should NOT be pawns in keeping a relationship on life support
@courageousCup4720- Are you still seeing him?? Is the daughter yours and his?? If so, then I feel for you because he is projecting guilt onto you. There must have been go reason to leave him, stay strong in those beliefs.
No shew is not mind. Her mom died before she and I met. I'm blnot seeing him..haven't since we split up. I'm in a new and healthy relationship