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Almost a year later

User Profile: courageousCup4720
courageousCup4720 August 24th, 2022

It's been almost a year since I left my boyfriend of 6 years years my choice but he has an incredible way of making me feel like I completely ruined his and his daughter's lives even though we were both a part of the faults in the relationship. He never degrades me or says bad things but he makes me feel insanely guilty even though I was so unhappy I was crying every day

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 25th, 2022

@courageousCup4720
Wanting to be happy and breaking off contact with others whom make you feel miserable in NOT something you should feel guilty about.

I am at a loss as to why some would rather live in misery then be alone. I think it is really tough when a child is involved in the relationship but again they should NOT be pawns in keeping a relationship on life support

User Profile: barncat
barncat August 26th, 2022

@courageousCup4720- Are you still seeing him?? Is the daughter yours and his?? If so, then I feel for you because he is projecting guilt onto you. There must have been go reason to leave him, stay strong in those beliefs.

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User Profile: courageousCup4720
courageousCup4720 OP August 26th, 2022

No shew is not mind. Her mom died before she and I met. I'm blnot seeing him..haven't since we split up. I'm in a new and healthy relationship

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User Profile: barncat
barncat August 26th, 2022

@courageousCup4720- Best news I've heard all day. You deserve to be in a healthy relationship. ❤️

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User Profile: courageousCup4720
courageousCup4720 OP August 26th, 2022

Excuse the typos, I didn't know how to edit my post lol

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