Break up Help
Recently, I have lost someone that meant the world to me. Me and my girlfriend broke up and I am devastated. I can't find a way to move forward, i've lost all motivation and just am falling apart. She said she just wants to be alone and learn how to love herself and I respect that. It just sucks. I miss her so so much and it's so hard not talking to her anymore. The thought of life without her is unbearable. I don't know what to do.
@jakecardwell
Hi--that sounds really difficult. 😟 Your girlfriend and you broke up because she wants to try to grow on her own. And you're respecting that, but you miss her so much, it's hard to imagine life without her, and it feels hard to have any motivation or know how to go forward. 💜
If it's helpful, 7 Cups has a breakups self-help guide that contains some tips. Alternatively, if you'd like to talk through it with someone, HERE is a list of experienced listeners on the site who accept 1-on-1 chats on breakups.
I understand i hv been gone through this four months.
Same here, my ex said i was a trigger to him