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Can't move on

User Profile: Leelee73
Leelee73 August 14th, 2016

My wife of 13 years told me almost 1 1/2 ago that she wants a divorce. We have 2 kids together, one has a severe illness that requires treatment once a month. I moved out when she told me but we go together as a family for my child's treatment, one week every month. All we do is fight, she has moved on emotionally, she parties with her friends and has a good time but she hasn't filed for divorce yet due to financial reasons. I miss my family and still love my wife. I met a really great woman about 6 months ago, we have a lot in common and we have fun together. I love her and care about her but I just can't move forward with her. I want to but I feel like I can't give up on my family. My wife says she is going to file for divorce next month. How do I move on or should I keep waiting for my wife to change her mind?

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User Profile: Leelee73
Leelee73 OP August 14th, 2016

Sorry, i read my post and it's a little confusing. My wife asked for the divorce almost 1 1/2 years ago. I moved out when she told me she wanted a divorce, that she didn't love me and hadn't for almost 7 years and she wanted me to leave.

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User Profile: NorCal
NorCal August 15th, 2016

@Leelee73

I feel for you. I truly do. I am also in the loss of someone who has the same impact on several lives.

I just hang out in the chat channels. It helps sometimes.

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User Profile: Leelee73
Leelee73 OP August 15th, 2016

@norcal thank you. I read a little about your situation and I'm very sorry for what you're going through as well. Hopefully talking about this and time and family and friends will help us.

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