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Cheating husband losing my mind

User Profile: HolleeR23
HolleeR23 October 10th, 2021

I've been with my husband for 9 years we have four kids together.

I'm to the breaking point I have schizophrenia bipolar disorder this whole thing is making me fall from the recovery level I was at with no meds no therapy.

I need advice on what to do.

Ugh im at a hard place I don't want to leave but at the same time I don't want to stay.

he saids he wants to change but he hasn't stopped and I can't take it anymore.

He's cheated multiple times and it has left me feeling lonely and unwanted ,unloved I set us up on a marriage counseling program but I doesn't even try.

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User Profile: resourcefulOwl7361
resourcefulOwl7361 October 11th, 2021

I’m so sorry to hear what you’re doing through. I think you deserve to be happy and shouldn’t be with a guy who cheats on you. I know some couples try to work through infidelity but I feel like it’s not even worth it— it’s going to take so much more work for you to try to trust him and do you think you could ever trust him 100%? I’m not telling you to break up with him, only you can decide that and know what’s in your heart. Sending you hugs and positive vibes to get you through this. I recently just got out of a 9 year relationship too (no kids though) and it’s extremely painful but know that there are brighter days ahead 💕

User Profile: neonKiwi463
neonKiwi463 October 11th, 2021

I feel your pain. I am going through it as well with my husband. I was going to walk away this last time and again he swore he would change so I stayed. He is currently doing something called "the love dare" i had to give him the book but he is actually reading it. When he is putting in effort it is obvious although the same can be said when he isn't. It's too soon to know if our marriage can be saved but lots of people swear by it. I'm here for you.