Heartbroken and would love some comfort
Hi people. I just wanted to get some stuff off my chest
My boyfriend broke up with me today. This is one of the safe places I can go to to talk about this. I don’t know how to get over him, and I’m scared I’m going to go into a deep spiral because I can’t stop thinking about him. There were so many things I wanted to do with him, and a future with him in it. We even planned a future together, but now that’s disappeared and the thought that we will never hold hands, or cuddle, or stay up late together breaks my heart. Thinking of the memories we had together hurts me, as well as the fact that I won’t be able to plan dates with him like I wanted to.
He broke up with me because he had other priorities and said it wouldn’t be fair for me if he wasn’t motivated to keep the relationship going. It’s understandable, and I don’t want to date someone who won’t put as much effort into it. But I’m still really heartbroken, I love him so much.
I would really love someone to comfort me, this is my first breakup and was my first relationship.
@willinggrapes
yeah, you need to talk to people about it. to anyone who wants to listen. the first couple of weeks will be tough. its a fresh wound. be nice and loving to yourself. sending you peace.
@willinggrapes
I can absolutely feel how you are feeling right now as breaking up is a big probability for me too.. First he and I will talk, and then it may be breakup and it may be soon. I dread even the thought of the pain that will follow. I need a friend like you do, I need to talk the pain away.. My mind and my heart are suffering.
I have this advice for you (though I don't consider myself as the best person to give advice in situations like this) : get out of your bed and do sth that you like instead of thinking about your relationship. There are so many people out there who are good for you as a friend or a companion. One thing ends for another one to start. In time. Don't rush. Just do sth that will ease your pain right now.. Sth creative. What is your hobby? Do it. Look upwards.. Look forwards.. Look away.. Don't look inside you, don't look back.
You have hugs from me (if I may) and my deep deep understanding 🌹🌹🌹
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sending love and peace to you,
my breakup was only yesterday and it really hurts so I can understand the emotions you must be feeling.
this is a safe place for you, we are here for you
let us get through the pain of our breakups together : )
@willinggrapes- simply sending you hugs and a soft pillow to cry into. Breaking up with your first love is hard. Be easy on yourself, and your heart will heal. Take care.❤️
Thank you everyone : ) I’m really grateful to have a support system here
Thank you for the love ❤️ sending love to everyone here
@willinggrapes
thanks for the love. same to you...
