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He broke up with me after 1 year 5 months.

User Profile: lavendarWriter8279
lavendarWriter8279 July 18th, 2021

he said he just lost feelings for me. he had stopped trying and then he just.. lost feelings for me. i loved him so much. he was my first love. i don't want anyone else. i don't understand why he didn't love me enough. we were perfect, but no unreal perfect. we we were perfect because we always found a way to work through our issues. we always found our way to each other. i am in so much pain and i feel like my world has come to an end. we had so many dreams together. i loved him plenty. i hate that it happened. i hate that it happened to me. why do i deserve this? he's good being without me, but what about me? i am so heartbroken and i just want this pain to end. i want to forget him, forget everything else.

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User Profile: rosegold116
rosegold116 July 18th, 2021

it's okay for you to feel all the emotions but never let the emotions control you for a long time. breakup hurts but it doesnt mean you will never find someone else again. maybe he wasnt meant to be with you, maybe god remove him from your life because he is not good for you but you couldnt see it and you deserve someone better who see the worth in you. it's still early, you will meet so many people after this and when you look back you will be grateful that you can hold yourself together. this experience will make you stronger in the next relationship. and as the saying goes, maybe you are one heartbreak closer to happily ever after. dont worry girl, there is true love out there for you.

User Profile: raraxiao
raraxiao July 18th, 2021

This is how I am feeling right now. I couldn’t say anything, but you are not alone

User Profile: 4leaf5leaf6leaf
4leaf5leaf6leaf July 20th, 2021

I’m in the same spot. I wish I had an answer, just wanted to say you’re not alone

User Profile: ChristianPatriot77
ChristianPatriot77 July 20th, 2021

Things don't always make sense unfortunately. And at times it's best you don't know the real answer. I've recently been devastated by a loss of what seemed like a great, almost flawless relationship. She just wanted to be done. Out of nowhere. It's been the hardest time of my life. Just know that eventually, it will improve some. What I'm doing is focusing small daily victories. For instance, today I worked out and have been nice to everyone I've come across, and now, writing to you to attempt to help. Those can all be considered positive things. So just set small and attainable goals and crush them the best you can. Today I've felt pain, but a little less. You're not alone. Feel free to message me if you need to vent or talk. God bless.