Hurting so bad
It’s been about a month now since my boyfriend broke up with me and in a couple days it’s his birthday. I’m having a hard time today handling my emotions towards it and not reaching out to him to tell him that I miss him and want him back. I know that would just make me look desperate, but there’s a part of me that hopes it would work. I keep fighting myself on it though. I just don’t know how to get over him. He is all I think about.
Hi! @djhmbtr
I can hear you are really struggling, and, trust me, I've been there. You're strong for being able to resist this long, and you're strong enough to continue resisting the urge to contact him. Keep reminding yourself of all his imperfections because no matter how great he seemed, there's something that wasn't ideal about him and thinking about such can help you stop idealizing him (assuming you were).
Don't forget to reach out to people who can support you. These are understandably challenging times, but you're strong enough to get through.
@HappinessIsAFirefly thank you. This app has been incredibly helpful during this difficult time.
