It is never easy to forgive.
My ex-husband wants me to hang out with him, like a date. I did not expect him to ask me such since we
@kayleecollins
Hello, thank you for sharing it with us. After trust being broken once, being able to trust them again is not easy.Amd forgiving is real hard. And seems like you are in confusion on what to do. What do you think will be better for you and what might help you taking the decision?
@kayleecollins as a divorcee myself, I can understand the hesitation you have. That type of violation in such an important relationship is difficult to overcome and forgive. It took me a long time to realize that the only person I'm hurting is myself because he's obviously moved on and found his way to cope. That being said, you aren't obligated to be his friend. This is a kind of a catch-22; if you do, maybe you'll be able to have a better friendship than a marriage, but on the other hand, do you really want to give him the chance to hurt you again? And that answer lies within you. Weigh out the pros and cons. Think about what made you two wonderful, what made you two fight. It's hard to move on, and be friends. But don't feel obligated.