Losing the love of my life
I'm struggling everyday with wanting to get her back or let her go knowing I'll never find love as good. For 2 years we meant everything to each other and were inseparable. We had plans for our lives going forward. I graduated college and couldnt stay while she was starting a new school to finish her degree. The distance hurt us more than we both shared because we just desired to be around each other but circumstances prevented it initially. We ended up breaking up because it was just so hard on her and she was able to find peace after a few months but now, 6 months from the breakup she feels she doesn't love me anymore and everything we lived are just memories. We still know each other really well but she just wants to be alone with no one right now. I can deal with that but I'm scared she may never love me again and the only reason we broke up was for her to heal from the distance. We had no ill will toward each other. I plan to go see her soon because she still has stuff that I own but I don't want it to become worse. My heart cries out for her but I'm just afraid she will never answer again.
@Snail60 i am sorry to hear it Snail. It is quite overwhelming and heartbreaking moment. I can relate to your experiences. You are not alone.
Future is uncertain. It is unpredictable and we never know what will happen next. Who knows?
Probably you could try to live in the moment and just embrace it. Because it will help you to cherish what you have rather than regretting for what did not last.
What do you think? I know it is easier said than done but all we could do is try and see what we could find.
@ASilentObserver
Thank you for the response. I'm just hoping for another chance. We were only separated by distance but the more time goes by the more I'm scared she is gone for good. I don't want to give up hope because the love was that true and real for us.
@Snail60 i get this snail. Good relationships are worth all efforts and chances.
