My first breakup
Yesterday my long distance boyfriend and I mutually decided that we needed to break up. Things just weren’t working. I was putting more into the relationship than he was. Basically what happened is that we both agreed that things couldn't work anymore. I was putting in more to the relationship for months and he just couldn't do it. I told him that I couldn't stand not getting any reciprocation from him and he felt bad because he just couldn't do it. He has known that he isn't really a relationship kind of person but he tried so hard to make it work. We both did, we both wanted everything to work and it just couldn't. We mutually decided that we needed to end the relationship. We don't hate each other or anything, we left on good terms but it still hurts
I think sometimes the most civil break ups tend to hurt the most because there’s no anger or resentment there for the individual, just unfortunately things didn’t work out. As tough as it sounds, you just have to focus on yourself now and do things that make you happy.
@FierySalad that's the downside of relationships not working its unfortunate but what more could you have done if he wouldn't put the effort into it.
You’re absolutely right. I decided that I’m worth more than to be treated like that. It sucks but what can you do
@FierySalad Yeah long distance is hard too from what I hear and saw what some of my past friends went through.
