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Should I believe him?

User Profile: intelligentCat42
intelligentCat42 April 9th, 2021

My ex and I broke up over a month ago after three years, I recently got notified off a fake account that he was involved with his ex again (he said to me he hated her when we were together) and I’d discovered he’d friend requested her on facebook very recently, so I confronted him about this and he said nothing was going on, he doesn’t know who would message me and that it made him ‘feel sick’ and ‘wound him up’ that someone would message me with blatant lies... should I trust him? As soon as I mentioned they were friends on facebook, he deleted her... I don’t know what to think, do you guys think he’s telling the truth or just lying to stop me from hurting?

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User Profile: Mintyclinty
Mintyclinty April 9th, 2021

I'm not sure if what I'm going to be true about what happened when you guys were together but he seems like a manipulator and when you caught him being friends with his ex and then quickly deleted her then turned around and made you feel bad is not right so in all honesty I think his trying to play games and you caught him off guard. I'm really sorry this happened to you

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User Profile: intelligentCat42
intelligentCat42 OP April 9th, 2021

Do you think there was any intentions behind him adding her? I’m trying not to look too far into the whole situation, but I can’t help it.

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User Profile: resourcefulOwl7361
resourcefulOwl7361 April 12th, 2021

Are you still ex’s or did you get back together? If you’re still broken up then it shouldn’t matter what he’s doing since he’s no longer your problem! But if you’re back together, I think it would be a very difficult relationship if you couldn’t trust him so you either need to believe him or let him go. To me personally, it sounds really shady but you’re the one in the situation and your intuition and gut will never let you down!