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The signs that she seeks attention from other guys

User Profile: Slaughtereds0ul
Slaughtereds0ul April 9th, 2019

Hello everyone. Probably this comunity can ansver to my unsloved questions wich were mistery for me most of my time with my girlfriend. As you see by the thread name, i suspect her seeking attention of other guys. Wherever she goes she uses A LOT ( yes A LOT) of make up. The next point is that she alvays hides her phone telling me that she has nothing to hide... Yeah.. Moving on, she never tells me what is she doing outside with her friends. So i keep thinking that she seeks attention so she can be seen by better guy than me and after she finds him - for sure ill become lonely. So if im right i let her go wishing her luck finding the tiger she is looking for. If thats what she wants let it be. I will go my own road and the final road. The last one. I never founs myself happy during my whole life so after all it might be chanse to fly away. Let me know what you guys think.. Thanks...crying

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver April 25th, 2019

@Slaughtereds0ul i am sorry to hear about it Soul. Seems like you are feelimg insecure in this relationship. .

Probably you could talk to her about insecurities and take necessary steps to overcome it.

Also, remember we cannot control others actions. But how we respond, we can manage it.

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User Profile: Slaughtereds0ul
Slaughtereds0ul OP April 25th, 2019

@ASilentObserver Thanks for ansvering me. Well im afraid to talk with ther about this. She gets mad and she isnt replying to me at all than... i dont know what else left..

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver April 26th, 2019

@Slaughtereds0ul well I am sorry to hear it Soul. But in a relationship, aren't we supposed to communicate to discuss and get possible solutions of problems?

If the person keep getting mad, how long could we continue such relationship?

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User Profile: Divorcsupport
Divorcsupport April 28th, 2019

@Slaughtereds0ul

Communication is important. You being insecure or clueless what going in her mind is also not fair. Maybe you can try by expressing your love and emotions you feel for her and than you can tell you want a transparency in this relationship. Still she get mad you cant do anything. Understanding is also important part of any relationship.Best of luck.

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver April 29th, 2019

@Divorcsupport thank you for the suggestion and words support. I hope it helps the member. thank you <3

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