Unclear Start is worse
It's exhausting how many people treat relationships like a mystery novel. dragging out the "will they/won't they" for chapters when the answer could be clear in a single conversation.
Why do so many avoid directness? The endless waiting, the vague replies, the "let's see where this goes" limbo. it all just feels like wasted time dressed up as romance. If someone knows they don’t want commitment, why string others along with maybes? If they’re not feeling it, why ghost instead of just saying so?
The worst part? The ones who claim to "hate games" are often the ones playing them the hardest. They'll call you "too intense" for asking basic questions, then wonder why their connections fizzle out from lack of direction.
Would it really be so difficult to just say upfront:
Instead, people act like honesty is rude, and clarity is "rushing." But what’s ruder.... a brief uncomfortable moment, or weeks/months of someone’s wasted energy? What do you think?
@BeingHuman90s Decisive words and actions are better than being in confusing state
Have a clear, direct and gentle conversation is good . Not everyone feels or thinks the same way but we can let them know about our intention in a non offencive way ( in case if they are sensitive to these conversations) . And their response will be enough for us to know what we need to do ahead. Sometimes silence is also a answer my friend, even more loud than baseless excuse sometimes. So have faith in god and remind yourself that u will never be "too intense" for the right person.
@BeingHuman90s
Relationships and people are a growing changing thing.
Directness and honesty is not rude.... but may often feel like rushing a partner to make decisions before they are sure.
Some might be unsure how they feel they could be afraid of how they feel or worried about being hurt. Taking your time and seeing how things are growing together is not game playing it is self preservation.
Game players are ones who have other motives or hang out with someone KNOWING this will go no where but do not like being alone.
That also makes sense. Actually I am not saying that we say things right after we make contact. It can be after a while but I'm saying that it must be earlier. It must be simple... Not keeping things from each other which can cause emotional harm later .