Unsure
Today, after being hurt so many times, I finally had the nerve to breakup with the man I have been with for the past 6 years. He is a very unfaithful man. We have 4 kids under the age of 5 together. I asked him to leave but he refused to leave, he says he will leave when he gets ready. Child support, from previous relationships, is garnishing his wages. He brings home less than $100 every 2 weeks, so he hasn't helped me out financially in a long time. I want him to leave but I don't know how to get him out. I feel if he stays he'll be here forever because he has nowhere else to go, and he can't pay his way with that income. My big heart wants to let him stay just because of that, and I don't want him to be homeless.
@Leej1977 - I'm proud of you for taking that first big step and I think it's important to keep reminding yourself that your responsibility is to make the choices that are right for you and for your children - no one else. You deserve to make yourself a priority.
I moved your thread to the Break-ups and Divorce section.