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When You're Missing Someone.

User Profile: NewRomantic677
NewRomantic677 December 26th, 2015

We've all been there before, I think. You wish that one person was here with you, and you just can't stop wanting one thing that money can't buy- them. Or to go back in time. Desperately reliving memories. Your mind, screaming, "it's hopeless, they won't return" and your heart, in a soft whisper, hoping. believing hurts. Clinging onto the hope that your loved one will return, that hurts. wanting to turn back time hurts in epic proportions, and healing from that is probably the hardest thing ever. At least, it's felt that way for me. and when I feel this way, the sinking feeling of missing someone seems never ending. Be it a breakup, divorce, anything. It's just so tough.

I've been there. It's taken me a few years once to make it to recovery, but I did. And it seemed so impossible at the time, to recover. to not want the person that was always on my mind, constantly. To make it past that, and to see that I could do it, what I previously thought I couldn't, has me star struck. Now, that sinking feeling is back, but I know i can do this, and you can too

But you can make it through. This thread is for anyone who is going through the "I miss you so much it hurts" phase. Hopefully we can all come together and share how we cope, and bond as a community.

you are strong. you can, and will, get through this pain you thought would last forever. If we can all share and get through this together, that'd be awesome! (and personally, music has helped me cope with missing someone)

wishing you all the best, lovely stranger reading this!

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User Profile: bubblingHero97
bubblingHero97 April 2nd, 2017

It's not someone that I miss but its the "us" that I miss the most.

We dated for 7 months, long distance. We decided to be friends for now, he still loves me, so do I, its complicated, but we still skype, talk, flirt, everyday for hours and this kills me every time when I think about it. I want to be us and not just you and me. But its complicated.

The only thing that keeps me going is: He's visiting in Christmas for the first time.

User Profile: caringLight
caringLight April 20th, 2017

it's hard when you love the person but in time things can get better

User Profile: Pixie13
Pixie13 July 17th, 2017

The pain is unbearable...its like torture. I can't imagine ever feeling normal or happy again. I miss him so so much

User Profile: Brokenhearted22
Brokenhearted22 July 17th, 2017

I'm in the same boat! I keep thinking he's going to get back with his ex and live happily ever after while I'm still miserable ha!

User Profile: Brokenhearted22
Brokenhearted22 July 17th, 2017

I'm in the same boat! I keep thinking he's going to get back with his ex and live happily ever after while I'm still miserable ha!

User Profile: KSWQueen
KSWQueen July 18th, 2017

I finally got over it but now I'm back to missing him.. LIKE WHY DO YOU DO THIS.

User Profile: colourfulBlueberry62
colourfulBlueberry62 July 28th, 2017

@NewRomantic677

honestly, hope is the greatest obstacle to move on :( <3