Work relationship ruined
Well I sorta dated this coworker back in December when me and my current boyfriend were on a break and that coworker hurt me he was just using me manipulated and lied to me and I haven't been the same since bc I still have to see him at work and he is really rude to me half the time. I could use some help moving on from this bc its been really hard and my boyfriend is really worried about me and what this is doing to me mentally.
@laura718 Hi there. I am so sorry to hear that you are struggling right now emotionally as a result of dating a coworker. I can't imagine the pain you must feel but no one deserves to be treated like that. Being lied to, being manipulated, etc-- those are not good especially if it is affecting you. Is there a way you are able to avoid your coworker at work? The decision of what you do or how to handle it is yours alone but I did want you to know that you do not have to deal with these feelings you feel alone. There are listeners on here that would be more than happy to help you while you work through your feelings. You can browse for an available listener here. And too, please know that your feelings are valid and you have a right to feel the way you do. I think it is super sweet that your current boyfriend is so supportive and cares about how it is affecting you. I wish you healing and please know you can move forward from this over time. Please take care of yourself.
Thank u so much