he wants me to disappear out of his life but we have the same friend group
so, i broke up because i realized how i definitely wasn’t ready for a relationship. i told him before but he kept asking so i gave in. but i couldn’t do it anymore and my metal health heat getting worse.
hes now doing amazing, having a lot of self-confidence etc.
meanwhile i’m just a wreck. my friends are good friends with him as well but since things are awkward between me and him i just can’t go to them when they’re all together and rather stay out of the frame since that is what he wants. according to him i already broke his trust so i wanna try my best not to worsen it and just try my best to make him hate me a bit less.
it’s not like i don’t want my friends and him to be friends anymore, that’s the last thing i would want as it is their life’s and they can do whatever they want, and it that friendship keeps them happy it alright. though i still feel sad at how open he can talk to them as when it’s just us he’s ignoring me and saying nothing anymore. (which is reasonable, but i still feel hurt)
im just confused and do not know what to do. i don’t wanna distant myself from my friends but i don’t wanna over step boundaries.
@sovrapple he is an add hole and so are your friends then.
You deserve better friends and he is a jerk. All that confidence could come from him feeling like he’s “won” as he still has the friends. Guys also tend to present themselves as “better off” after a break up. normally the pain hits later for them. You deserve better friends so work on yourself and better friends will come naturally