i want a second chance but he doesn
a little backstory: i was in a long distance relationship, dated for 1yr and 4months and we had a 7hr time difference. after we broke up we are friends now
a month ago i got broken up with things were fine in the morning but suddenly he wanted to breakup. the reason was: his health was ruined coz he stayed up late for me, he also felt unappreciated that he stayed up late even tho i was and i told him i was, we also never initiated meeting up and it was a waste of time for him and he wanted to focus on studies and it wasnt the right time to date . the thing is my breakup was just a big misunderstanding i sent a short text because i got annoyed because he treated like a kid and then he got annoyed that i texted him a short word and he stayed up late.
i asked for a second chance and he said no i want to be in a relationship were i see the person everyday and stuff and it wont work out. i tried to accept that except i had a really bad mental breakdown and i just wanted him to hug me and say it will be fine. the thing is he seems happy through text and i feels like he moved on and it sucks i miss him so much and i just want to have a second chance like just to see if i could make it work and if it doesnt i will back off. he also told me he will stop talking to me if i bring it up. should i just give up and move on?
@neelaaa hey Neela, I am sorry to hear about the break up and I understand how it could have left with some unresolved emotions.
Seems like he got annoyed and made his mind clear what does he expect.
Probably, you may both take time as your friendship after breakup is still in sensitive situation. Maybe you could try to communicate later and see if things can get better? Meanwhile you could focus on your health and priorities.
We all are here with you to support and talk. You are not alone in this rough time. We will get through this.
I appreciate you for reaching out and sharing your thoughts. Sending you hugs.