my recent breakup
Hello everybody, i’ve come here to write down what i’m currently going through which is a breakup, this breakup was unexpected and unexplained too.
My ex partner didn’t give me reasons as to why we broke up, actually, i found out from a friend that we had broken up before my partner actually told me.
Which itself was already very hurtful, it’s been very hard without them for me, i made them my everything, we had made plans to spend christmas and new year’s together but now that’s just nothing.
Supposedly my partner didn’t like how i committed one mistake and that lead into them leaving me.
I feel like that was super unfair , i always forgave my partner for all the mistakes they did and always gave them a chance to become better but why am i not allowed to have that chance too?
i’ve been trying to hold on and move forward myself but it’s been very hard, i miss them very much , even if i’m not longer sure they loved me or just used me.
thank
you.
@emotionalNectarine3216
Thanks for sharing and I'm sorry that that happened. 💜 Your ex-partner just broke up with you out of nowhere without any explanation. You had made them the center of your whole life and had plans with them, but suddenly it just all vanished out of nowhere. And they couldn't even be bothered to tell you.
You found out that the breakup was over one mistake, which feels really unfair because you've always tried to forgive them and give them chances when they've missed up. Like, if they valued the relationship, couldn't they have tried to talk through things with you? 🙄 Can understand your frustration there.
If you'd like to talk some more with a listener about this, HERE is a list of experienced listeners who take 1-on-1 chats on breakups. You're also welcome to post some more here in the forums if you'd like. 7 Cups also has a self-help guide on breakups self-help guide on breakups if that's helpful.