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FRIENDSHIP ICEBREAKER

User Profile: StanDaMan78
StanDaMan78 May 20th, 2020

Hello friends! heart

I know many of us are finished, or almost finished, with the school year. Some people, including me, are off to college. This transition means meeting new people and making new friends! We're curious as to what YOU look for in a potential friend. Thus, here's an icebreaker:

What are three qualities that you look for in a friend?

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User Profile: bubbleCircle3689
bubbleCircle3689 June 16th, 2020

Someone who loves God & follows Him, someone who is humorous & can make me laugh whenever I am feeling blue. Also, loyal.

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User Profile: StanDaMan78
StanDaMan78 OP June 19th, 2020

@bubbleCircle3689

Yes, loyal loyal loyal!

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User Profile: bubbleCircle3689
bubbleCircle3689 June 19th, 2020

@StanDaMan78

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User Profile: lyricalAngel70
lyricalAngel70 June 20th, 2020

@bubbleCircle3689

Amazing!!

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User Profile: bubbleCircle3689
bubbleCircle3689 June 20th, 2020

@lyricalAngel70

Thanks 😊

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User Profile: LoveTracker
LoveTracker June 17th, 2020

@StanDaMan78

A friend for me is

1. Non judgemental.

2. To accept one another for how they are.

3. No formalities whatsoever the situation may be.

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User Profile: StanDaMan78
StanDaMan78 OP June 19th, 2020

@LoveTracker

Amen!

User Profile: shiningHeart10
shiningHeart10 June 22nd, 2020

@LoveTracker Yes!

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User Profile: Invisibility101
Invisibility101 June 18th, 2020

1. Trust- without trust there is nothing.

2. Acceptance- we will not always agree but we can agree to disagree and never invalidate each others feelings.

3. Listen- we should be able to just listen and be there for each other. Some things require advice but other times, listening without judgement is the best healing power.

4. Love- we should genuinely care and love each other. My success is your success and vice versa. When you hurt, I hurt and when you're happy, I'm happy. I have your back and you have mine and whatever is said or done, there is an undertone of love ❤

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User Profile: StanDaMan78
StanDaMan78 OP June 19th, 2020

@Invisibility101

Well said! Trust, acceptance, listen, and love are the paragon of a friendship <3

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User Profile: galactictroubles
galactictroubles June 18th, 2020

They have a sense of humor, they let me be open with them without too much judgement, they respect my boundaries

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User Profile: StanDaMan78
StanDaMan78 OP June 19th, 2020

@galactictroubles

I second that. Often times we forget to establish boundaries in friendships.

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User Profile: creativeDime4212
creativeDime4212 June 18th, 2020

I think a good firend is someone who knows what they want in life and works towards it, is senseable and smart, and is hard working.

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User Profile: StanDaMan78
StanDaMan78 OP June 19th, 2020

@creativeDime4212

I agree wholeheartedly!

User Profile: lyricalAngel70
lyricalAngel70 June 20th, 2020

@creativeDime4212

True

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User Profile: pcseeya
pcseeya June 19th, 2020

@StanDaMan78 I want someone real/true to themself, nice, and honest

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User Profile: lyricalAngel70
lyricalAngel70 June 20th, 2020

@pcseeya

Being real to oneself is so important.

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User Profile: Starmedia
Starmedia April 12th, 2021

@lyricalAngel70

Agreed! ^^

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User Profile: Starmedia
Starmedia April 12th, 2021

@pcseeya

Good to know, wishing you the best! ^^

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User Profile: swizzleapple75
swizzleapple75 June 19th, 2020

@StanDaMan78

After finishing my first year of college and losing old friends, reconnecting with good friends, and meeting so many new people, I have learned that my 3 best qualities in a friend are:

- Trusting

- Open-minded

- Unconditionally supportive and uplifting

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User Profile: Starmedia
Starmedia April 12th, 2021

@swizzleapple75

Glad to know about the learnings! ^^

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User Profile: KatLis123
KatLis123 January 3rd, 2021

What I look for in a friend is loyalty, honesty, kindness and respect. X

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User Profile: lyricalPillow3807
lyricalPillow3807 February 13th, 2021

@KatLis123

Yes..Kindness and respect though..

User Profile: Starmedia
Starmedia April 12th, 2021

@KatLis123

Important qualities. ^^

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User Profile: lyricalPillow3807
lyricalPillow3807 February 13th, 2021

Three Qualities I hope to be in a friend: Good sense of humour..Empathy and honesty..

If you don't mind I just wanna add one more quality--who can encourage me with life struggles..

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User Profile: lyricalPillow3807
lyricalPillow3807 February 13th, 2021

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User Profile: Starmedia
Starmedia February 23rd, 2021

@lyricalPillow3807 Nice answer! Smiling with smiling eyes

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User Profile: lyricalPillow3807
lyricalPillow3807 February 25th, 2021

@Starmedia

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User Profile: Frd1031
Frd1031 March 8th, 2021

1. They are consistent. They will NOT stop being my friend suddenly like all the friends I had.

2. They are true. I hate purple who play sweet or talk behind your back.

3. They are easy to be around. I don't want to feel anxious around them.

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User Profile: Starmedia
Starmedia April 12th, 2021

@Frd1031

Good to know! ^^

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