I wish I had someone with whom I could share . . . .
@Laura the part of me which I've been forced to conceal in order to be socially acceptable.
... a hug... OR a piece of cake! Hehe
... a hug... OR a piece of cake hehe
@Laura well u can share with me
My struggles with. Outside of 7Cups, I don't have anyone I can talk to that won't dismiss how I feel, or become arrogant about what I should do.
Also, if I could share the dreams, and true thoughts on the world/life with someone. That would be very nice.
I don't think anyone (including myself, sometimes) knows who I sincerely am.
This is a nice thread, thanks Laura.
@BlueDusk99
You put it so well. I couldn't have said it better myself but my struggles seem similar. Good luck to us both.
@forko23
Thank you.
And like you said, good luck to us both.
Take care.
This is so hard for me to write and others may read. It's been some time since I don't have someone to be friends with, someone who I can be totally comfortable with. Since It's been a time.. I lack of confident, I get so nervous and awkard socializing. In public I have anxiety and I may seem vulnerable. I always found so hard to talk about my deepest issues because sometimes I don't want others to see me suffering or passing bad time(vulnerable) or thats what I believe i see myself. Even though if Its someone I really trust telling.
I wish I had someone to unburden, to pass time, going to the movies or just walk, someone who I can share time with, as well my insecurities, my rosácea, the little things I like without being silly to the other or seems uninterested. I wish I had someone who I can be confident with even if I have no make up on(this is a big deal for me since I have rosácea).
As well, talking about how I'm feeling when anxiety hits me. I tend to not tell the other person I am with when I'm having anxiety in public, more often at the theater, I just can seem normal outside, but I can shake and get cold and I loose concentration, heart acelerates and I just hide It till It goes away... It's like I don't tell anything because I don't want to alarm the other or I dont know I'm not rational in the moment.
Someone who doesn't judge me because of my shy behaviour or who doesn't low me down because I seem shy or girly. Someone who I can share my darkness as well.. How my mood swings a lot and unstable I can get.
@LifelessDead
I understand this perfectly......you're not alone, I am here if you ever need me
@LifelessDead Well said. I couldn't write it better. The selfish world we live
My fear my feelings and my heart without any judgement.
...my interests and hobbies. It's better than nothing, and I can hope to trust them more and share more at a later date.
@Laura
Hi laura hope to hear from you
Best regards
the experience of going to a live music concert
the same level of enthusiasm for niche music genres