One Thing I Want To Change About Myself
We are in the month of Mental Health Awareness.
If you get a chance to change one thing about yourself, what will it be and why? 
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@ASilentObserver
hey silent, i dont mean to be rude but, is there any way to not get notifications. I kinda get this 'orange bell' with numbers even once in a while and i mean no offense but, i kinda get notified so often. is there something im missing. is there a button i need to trigger to off the notis? they're kinda like. here ALL THE TIME
@LovelyJulianne I am sorry Julianne. Will ensure not to get often. Thank you for telling me. However, they are alerts to inform the community.
@ASilentObserver
I want to love me more and keep working to be someone that I'm proud of :)
@JujubaColorfull Great purpose Colorfull. Keep it going. We all are here with you to help and support, whenever you need.
@JujubaColorfull
I believe in you that you can do it! 
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"QUICK EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS" It gives nothing but utter disappointment and hurt.
@Itsokay091 I know right. I hear you, Okay and thank you for bringing this up. So what do you think we could do to deal with this? Any suggestions?
@ASilentObserver
I want to share more my emotions with people so they know how I really feel about them.
@musicalShell51 Sounds like a plan Shell. Best wishes. We are here with you to support and help if ever needed anything to discuss.
Also, any suggestion how could we do it?
I would like to be less self-obsessed and have more empathy towards others.
@thryth great thought Thryth. Any suggestion how could we start doing it?
@ASilentObserver
I think connecting with good people would really help. Spending too much time by ourselves can cause tunnel vision; so, listening to others in their pursuits and struggles helps widen that bubble again, humbling us and reminding us to think of others too.
While it would be ideal to connect in person, spending time with people online can still be healing and I'm grateful the 7 Cups community exists because of this.
If any of you have advice on better practising empathy, I'd love to hear it! :)
@ASilentObserver
If you get a chance to change one thing about yourself, what will it be and why?
If I could really change one thing about myself it would be to just be myself unapologetically. I want to be able to feel comfortable being myself and I want the self-doubts to be there, but not let them hinder the best version I can be of myself. I want to just be and not feel the uncontrollable desire to be someone else.
@Moana22 could not agree more. i wanted to write the exact same!
@AveryLove You are amazing Avery.
@Moana22 seems like the best plan. Kudos to you and your thoughts Moana. Keep up the great work.
It'll be working towards being kind and nice to everyone even if they can't do the same thing to me. It's not about letting them abuse me or my kindness, it's about showing them how to be kind or showing them what kindness is to make a difference. ❤
@Erato incredible wisdom Erato. I like that. You are already doing that and we are glad to have such an amazing person here with us. Thank you for all you do.
@ASilentObserver aww obsie! So do you ❤ thanks for your kind words
I would make myself cisgender.
@ItsReganingRain okay. May I know what is it?Rain. I have the least knowledge about these terms. It would help if you help us understand it. Thank you.
@ASilentObserver I'm transgender. Cisgender is anyone who isn't transgender (aka most people)
Mine weight or I don't know
@ugulava okay cool. so any plan on how to achieve it? :o