One quality I look for in a romantic partner is....

Honesty.

Good communication

Compassion

That spark. Either it's there or it's not.

Loyalty and understanding.

isn't easily weirded out by things I say. I want them to also actually listen

Someone who accepts that I'm different and not like most people

@Laura

Someone who is okay if i change my pronouns on the day-to-day

Compassion

One important quality is patience. It takes a while for me to work up the nerve to do something, or make up my mind on it, or get used to it. Rushing me on anything makes me anxious, and if a guy is patient with me, that really makes a difference.