One quality I look for in a romantic partner is....
Laughter ... im a pretty sad person who thinks negativly about a lot so if a person can make me laugh and forget for a while its a special quality to me
Being funny 💕 I become sad often and have a short attention span, someone who can make me giggle until my tummy hurts just makes all the things bringing me down in life seem as if they don't matter. Can't be upset if you're too busy laughing.
Openness. I don't always recognize when there's a problem. If something is bothering you, just tell me and we'll find a way to deal with it.
Someone who I can tell anything to and be happy and safe
I need someone who understands me and listens to me through light and darkness and my bad days and help me through anything even if I get hurt
Someone who actually cares, and unconditionally loves and puts effort into me and the relationship. We should we best friends and lovers. Someone who I can spill everything to and they actually want to hear and listen and help. And they can feel comfortable telling me everything about them. Good and bad. Someone who isn't afraid of telling me how they feel about me. Someone who will actually love me for who I am.
Someone who can help me find my happiness.
Someone who is completely honest and doesn't mind sharing their feelings.
Patience and understanding... I've tried to be my best but they alwaysday ims never good enough...
i have a boyfriend who can be good some days, but he isnt capable of being emotional with people which obviously includes myself. today i had a long day where i may have failed one of my college exams. my car is giving me a lot of issues which puts stress on me financially. i wish my boyfriend texted me today, but he has complained in the past that i am too stressful, very emotional, a different person than he is and those previous experiences prevented me from messaging him out of guilt today, even though i just wanted to share my disappointment. even if i was too much, i wanted to have a moment of support. he got upset over this too because i messaged him saying i didnt feel there was an open connection and he said he felt attacked. i'm lonely. i dont have a friend who i can call for support. i just don't want to cry over feeling alone.
@straightforwardBeach973
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@straightforwardBeach973
i know exactly how your feeling. Feeling alone while being in a committed relationship is one of the most horrible things to go through. Maybe he isnt the right guy for you? You should never feel bad about needing to talk to someone you love.