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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver February 8th, 2018

Leaving appreciation or sweet notes. Whether you are in a romantic or friendship, employer or student, leaving appreciation notes or sweet notes for them can make them feel better about their relation with you. It could be one of the ways to strengthen the relationship with others.

Here's a small appreciation note for 7Cups Community and all whom I know and interacted with.

Now, as per you, Whats the single most important way to strengthen your relationship?

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User Profile: Blaze
Blaze February 8th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Communication, communication, communication.

Communication to talk about common interests to spark the flame.

Communication to talk about the things you like and the things you don't like, to set boundaries, figure out if the relationship has a future, to turn the flame into a fire.

Communication to make compromises, forvige and being fogiven to keep the fire alive and under control.

Communication times three. Be it for family, friendly, romantic, professional relationships. Communication times three.

That's how it works for me. laugh

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User Profile: simmikj
simmikj February 8th, 2018

@AiluraBlaze

Yeah.. True.. Even I believe.. "Communication "is most important thing and we should express whatever we feel...

Being ourself.. No fake expression..not hiding..

"No fear": fear always stops us from saying many things...

If we don't like something ,we can say it politely.. But we should say.. It makes our bonding more strong..

If someone doesn't like the way we are.. And we have to think twice thrice before saying anything that Means we are not with the right person..

Communication, no fear, showing exact emotions are most important thing in any relationship

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User Profile: Blaze
Blaze February 8th, 2018

@simmikj Yes! If you play a role and hide your true self, people will not love you for who you are, they'll love you for who you show them to be. In the long run, that's exhausting for everyone.

Being yourself will attract people who appreciate you and will love you for who you are!

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User Profile: simmikj
simmikj February 8th, 2018

@AiluraBlaze

Yeah correct.. laugh

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP February 8th, 2018

@AiluraBlaze

Agree Blaze. Communication is the key. And loved the idea of 3C. Lovely thoughts. Thank you for sharing this way with us. <3

User Profile: discreetBanana3119
discreetBanana3119 February 9th, 2018

@AiluraBlaze Sometimes I say this but other times I think some of us talk wayyyy too much! For instance females have thousands of words more in their vocabulary which can truly wear men out! On the other hand women friendships avoid confrontation dont know how to communicate without hurting the other persons feelings or ruining the relationship. :/ I think we all need to learn the skills in middle and high school?! Everyone should have to take a communication class that involves intimate relationships?

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User Profile: Blaze
Blaze February 10th, 2018

@discreetBanana3119 I can see where you come from! Too much of a good thing can be harmful. I believe that, regardless of gender, some people barely communicate their honest thoughs, some communicate so much it can be overwhelming. But here's the funny thing! Guess how we can know where we stand and what we can change: Communication. laugh

It's all around us, we can't avoid it. cheeky

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User Profile: discreetBanana3119
discreetBanana3119 February 18th, 2018

@AiluraBlaze Yes it

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User Profile: Akshita0612
Akshita0612 February 8th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Your post reminded me how I used to leave small notes on everyone's desk in my office to make them smile. That was an amazing feeling when a small note can brighten up somebodies day. I should start doing it again thanks for reminding wink

Well, I feel most important thing to strengthen a relationship is having a mutual understanding. Having a sense of understanding of other person's feelings, giving them their space, being with them when they need you the most.

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP February 8th, 2018

@Akshita0612 Mutual understanding is needed to strengthen the relationship. Agree with your thoughts and glad to hear it reminded you of what you were doing earlier.

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User Profile: Rebekahwriter13
Rebekahwriter13 February 8th, 2018

Open, honest communication

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP February 8th, 2018

@Rebekahwriter13

Agree Rebekah. A communication should be open ended. open ended communication allows each other to know and understand the thoughts and emotions well and build relation stronger. Thank you for lovely thoughts. Appreciate it.

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User Profile: MelanieDaniels63
MelanieDaniels63 February 8th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Ways to strengthen a relationship- I would say to be honest and to talk. To have a understanding 50/50 to be on the same page. To spend enough time together and to have trust, no relationship can work without trust. Express your feelings and to have your partner express there needs as well show them that you care and are there for them, there are so many ways to strengthen a relationship.

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP February 8th, 2018

@MelanieDaniels63 Lovely insights Mel. Second your thoughts Mel. Honesty and communication helps any relation to become stronger. And with communication, we also need to understand what communicated with each other. When you are on same page, it allows to keep relation run smoothly. Thank you for sharing with us . Hope you're doing well.

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User Profile: MelanieDaniels63
MelanieDaniels63 February 8th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Your welcome! I'm doing alright, thanks for asking hope is all well with you as well. Have a great day/night!

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User Profile: SarahSG88
SarahSG88 February 8th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Completely agree, the power of written notes is miraculous. And btw you seem to be awesome too :)

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP February 8th, 2018

@SarahSG88

Thank you for the kind words Sarah.

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User Profile: SarahSG88
SarahSG88 February 8th, 2018

@ASilentObserver Completely agree, the power of written notes is miraculous. And btw you seem to be awesome too :)

User Profile: Booklover95
Booklover95 February 8th, 2018

To me the most important is respect. Because respect brings boundaries, communication, loyalty and much more

Also thanks for the tag :D

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP February 8th, 2018

@Booklover95 Awesome insight Book. Respect is necessary. Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts with us. Hope you doing well.

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User Profile: YourBroFromTheOtherMo
YourBroFromTheOtherMo February 8th, 2018

@ASilentObserver loyalty

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP February 9th, 2018

@YourBroFromTheOtherMo

Agree YourBro. Loyalty is important to build relation stronger.

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User Profile: SmilingCamel55
SmilingCamel55 February 9th, 2018

trust!

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User Profile: Ang333
Ang333 February 10th, 2018

@SmilingCamel55

true yes the most important

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User Profile: KingAaron84
KingAaron84 February 12th, 2018

the single most important thing is Communication. You must talk toyour mate and be as open as possible with themeven if you feel it will hurt them. Don't let things build up and wait foran argument to speak about it.Talk right then so you can both reflect on what each other has to say.