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User Profile: Laura
Laura February 14th, 2017

It is Valentine's day and some of us may be struggling with lonliness. Let's have eachothers back today!

Share how you are doing here!

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User Profile: Snovy
Snovy February 14th, 2017

@Laura Hi. Not so lonely but feeling bad today as last night I decided to change my ways and start fresh today but it is easier said than done

User Profile: scarletDrum969
scarletDrum969 February 14th, 2017

@Laurahi

User Profile: oneintheshadows
oneintheshadows February 14th, 2017

As usual......I am the office work overtime.....to be quite honest..... Before I saw this post.....I didn't even realize that it's 14th feb today.....

February 14th, 2017

I'm fucked!

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User Profile: AbnormallyTypical
AbnormallyTypical February 14th, 2017

@WaelKhan

Hold your horses. That was an expletive. Why are you In a Bad Situation?

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February 14th, 2017

@AbnormallyTypical I had a setback yesterday, I can't recover from my addiction!

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User Profile: AbnormallyTypical
AbnormallyTypical February 14th, 2017

@WaelKhan

On a Scale of Smoking- to - Injection, How bad is it?

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February 14th, 2017

@AbnormallyTypical watching porn (eye-injection) lol

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User Profile: JazzyNRain
JazzyNRain February 14th, 2017

@WaelKhan You CAN get past it! It is just one set back, love yourself in forgiveness and move forward.

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February 14th, 2017

@JazzyNRain thank u

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User Profile: mimameid
mimameid February 14th, 2017

I'm currently on a trip with family, so luckily I'm not going to be as lonely today. Still though, I do still sometimes feel a bit bad about being single. But, I've kind of tried to remind myself that at this time, I'm more focused on finding a job than finding a boyfriend.

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User Profile: calidescopeheart
calidescopeheart August 17th, 2017

@mimameid sounds like you got your priorities right! Hope you found a job you love. xo

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User Profile: AbnormallyTypical
AbnormallyTypical February 14th, 2017

I'd like to point out that The Gauntlet of Lovers Begins in October and Ends in July.

All The Holidays.

😷

User Profile: resourcefulPond1641
resourcefulPond1641 February 14th, 2017

I think I'm too tired to really feel very lonely, but I am aware that this is the first year in 12 years that I've spend it on my own. I was either in a relationship before, or last year I spent it with my best friend. I guess I never cared that much about the day itself anyway, since I think it's just a holiday that's mean to make us spend money, but it's hard not to be aware of the fact that I'm very much isolated right now when there are so many reminders everywhere of couples paired up together. Honestly I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but I wish I could at least have spend some time with one of my close friends today. Maybe that's partly my fault, since I've been avoiding social media a bit; although I am doing that for my mental health right now. Anyway, that's just what I wanted to say about this subject since it's on my mind the last hour or so.

I'm glad that I found 7 cups, since it's helped me in so many ways, including making me feel less alone. So there is that. :)

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User Profile: SweetEmber2255
SweetEmber2255 February 14th, 2017

@resourcefulPond1641 This is my first year alone as well. It is really hard to remind myself that it's just another day but I am very aware of everything going on. I am spending time with my new puppy. She helps me feel loved. If you'd like to talk, I love connecting with new people :)

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User Profile: resourcefulPond1641
resourcefulPond1641 February 15th, 2017

@SweetEmber2255 Thank you! I only just saw this today, but it was really sweet of you to offer to talk. <3

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User Profile: jr50
jr50 February 14th, 2017

I am really lonely, and feeling bad too, started yesterday, slept ok , but this morning feels like yesterday, very anxious and knots in stomach

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User Profile: CalmCoach
CalmCoach February 14th, 2017

@jr50

Do you have support from your Listener? The one you really like, dear?

Just worried! So I thought I'd check in, to see if you do mail

CalmCoach/Counsellor A.J

New Zealand 7 Cups Therapist

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User Profile: jr50
jr50 February 14th, 2017

@CalmCoach. Yes , but has a busy schedule with classes

User Profile: jr50
jr50 February 14th, 2017

@CalmCoach. Thank you for reaching out to me, having a hard time today

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User Profile: CalmCoach
CalmCoach February 14th, 2017

@jr50

Thats okay my dear, it can be really hard when we don't have as much support as we would like around us when we are having a hard time and feeling really emotionally down! Feel free to chat to me here if you like (Therapists don't have the standard PM function in these cases) So feel free to share, vent or get some emotional validation from me on the Fourm here if you like, okay? I don't want today to be a sad one for you! mail

CalmCoach/ Counsellor A.J

New Zealand 7 Cups Therapist

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User Profile: jr50
jr50 February 15th, 2017

@CalmCoach thank you for offering your support!

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User Profile: JustLolli
JustLolli February 14th, 2017

I feel a little lonely but still obliged to do school works and try to study for 16 hours. 😂😂 but made plans to be with peers for valentine's. 😂😂

User Profile: DoORTry
DoORTry February 14th, 2017

Alone