Its completely isolating when you feel all alone in this world, but let me tell you, your not alone in feeling this way, many people do. Through my own experience, I can tell you, if your looking for that one person who makes you feel less alone, like the one the one who makes you feel special, loved and valued, the best and true place to start with, is your self. Yourself is the one person in the whole world who truely loves and respects you, trust yourself to identify what you are looking for, dont settle because your feeling lonely. Be happy with yourself, love yourself, be confident in yourself, and respect yourself, and you will find what your looking for, weather this is friendship or companionship, but you have to find it in yourself first x
@Wonderlustt
@Hug4you
Thanks for your advice but I have learnt to be ok by myself but sometimes no matter how much you are ok with yourself or are surrounded by friends you still get an overwhelming sense of loneliness from being single and it doesnt help if the fact that every time you put yourself out there you get knocked back
Totally agree @Wonderlustt
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Totally agree @Wonderlustt
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Totally agree @Wonderlustt
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@Wonderlustt
I completely agree, too.
Ive done a lot of work on myself and Im comfortable in my own company, and now I want to share my life with somebody else! Im not one of those people who has never been alone and needs to take some time to learn who they are.
I feel really scared that Im just meant to be alone, or that Ill have to settle for someone awful if I dont want to be alone. People tell me to wait, take time to heal, be myself, work on myself, and it still just hurts. There is no replacement for another human being who loves you.
Deep down I know that Im good enough, and I believe Id be an amazing partner for someone. I hope you can see the same in yourelf.
@Wonderlustt
Totally agree @Wonderlustt
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@kate1234444
@Wonderlustt i have said all of the same words. I am here to make sure i do find fulmiint in all areas of life. I am here to break old patterns bc this lonliness has become all encompassing. You are not alone
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@Wonderlustt
I'm sorry you feel that way. Perhaps you might want to take things slowly. Get to know the new partner before you confess your feelings or even show it. I know its not easy but maybe you can find a way to be more "hard to get". Let it be you who is screening and not the opposite. It might be a good chance also for you to enjoy your life and assess what you actually want. Travel or do a new hobby. Anything that can help you fill the void at the moment. We often have high expectations and get disappointed quickly. It will get better if you want to change it and I hope you will find the will to do that.