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Can't help but feel we lost time

User Profile: MangoLemon8033
MangoLemon8033 January 14th, 2023

Hi everyone, was told to use this app from my therapist a few days ago so of course I'm here now

To make things simple, me and my now husband, had to split up for a few months prior to us getting married due to reasons outside our control(job promotion, family) I decided to end things at the time but although things worked out in the end, I can't help but feel like I should never have broken my then boyfriends heart and should have just stuck it out? Then again, I also feel like if things didn't happen how they did, we wouldn't be happily married and living together expecting our first child now

Thoughts?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 January 14th, 2023

@MangoLemon8033

IMO looking back and playing what if is unproductive and often creates issues where there are none.

sometimes something even very small happens and it is water under the bridge...... it worked in the end and dwelling on past robs you of the NOW.

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