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me and my gf brokeup cause her mom is homophobic

User Profile: funnyCircle5339
funnyCircle5339 March 26th

my gf just brokeup w me cause her mom knows about us, and she is homophobic and im scared i wont met my gf again. Im crying

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@funnyCircle5339 Ohhh no. I'm so sorry your girlfriend broke up with you because of her mom finding out. In an ideal world, people would just be accepting of others. It's heartbreaking when people can't be accepting. I hope that her mother can one day accept her own daughter and whomever she chooses to be in a relationship in. I also hope that you know this has nothing to do with you. There's nothing wrong with you but with her mother's unwillingness to accept you two together just because of who you both wish to identify as. Wishing healing vibes your way. 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 March 26th

@funnyCircle5339

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I'm genuinely sorry to hear that 🩷

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla March 26th
@funnyCircle5339 I'm so sorry about what you're going through. Family should always support their children's happiness, and it's terrible that your gf's mother is making her give up on something that gives you both joy.

All you can do right now is let your gf know you'll always be there for her, that you're willing to support her through everything, that she's worth more than her mother's judgement and she deserves to be happy. I'm sure she cares deeply for you, but having to give up on her family must be incredibly hard and she's struggling. She might need time to make a definitive choice and overcome the fear to challenge her family's judgement. Hold on and let her know she's not alone.
And you're not alone either. I know you feel lost and heartbroken, but you're doing all you can to make sure she feels loved and supported. The rest is up to her.