Do you want to be my friend?
Now I know you might be thinking: desperate! It's not this simple! But many people myself included are without any real friends and are left to feel alone. Others like myself are seeking friendship and connection too, and want someone who listens and likes going beyond the usual chat and small talk, etc. I'm one such person (waves hand). It's hard to find friendship without a real context to find it in the first place and not feel judged. I am a real person in his 20s and lives in the US, I wish to do more than just talk with people but to see them all the time. This doesn't solve loneliness or depression by any means but it certainly can help in the fight.
Hi! Im spanish sorry for my english! Are you ok?
@tehru I'm doing well in general
@ramSpiral2500
Hi there! I'm Karp!
I would love to be your friend!
Let's talk some more!
Send me a personal chat request at 7cups.com/@karp
Let's be friends :D
@karp Hi there, well I was unable to message you because it said you will only listen to other teens. :( I'm just past that stage but still pretty young. My goal is to one day be spending as much time with those I call my friends as possible. At least one philosopher believes that this is essential.
@ramSpiral2500
Oh I am sorry to hear that. :(
And yes I do agree that it is important to spend time with friends.
Did you consider getting a job and making friends with Co-Workers?
Also, if you go to college that is a great place to make new friends!
There are so many people there that you can talk to and many would accept you as a friend.
~Karp
@karp Right now I simply work a night shift and much of them are quite nice. I don't feel all alone when I'm there with them. However a lot of them are older and have a family and another job, etc. I've considered college just to be in a true friendship-sparking environment, but I have this fear I'd just lose touch with all of them the same way I did people from high school :(
@ramSpiral2500
Go for the college! I strongly suggest you do. You got to get your co-workers phone numbers and actively invite them for lunch or something once a month or text them "How is everything going?" once in a while. That will keep your friendship active. Go for the college! :D
~Karp
@karp I wish I could say my heart was in it (college), for me it hasn't come so easy as I'm introverted so I'm shy and fearful of being too forward. It's not in my nature to suddenly be loud and outgoing. I'm not that deeply in touch in my co-workers, most of them I don't sense a whole lot of openess (if that's a word) to things deeper than small talk.
@ramSpiral2500
Hey there! Feel free to message me. I listen to both teens and adults. I'm in my 20s too so maybe that's important too who knows. I know how hard it is to be alone. I am trying to be my own buddy for now. We can chat! Let me know what's your time zone and if any of the times mentioned on my profile help you. Take care!
(also moved you thread from 'welcome' to 'friendships support')
Hey I'm Juan id love to be your friend I used to live in the u.s and also have 0 friends and having 1 would be a great thing
@ramSpiral2500
I hope you are okay.
You left me .... I am still here waiting
"But many people myself included are without any real friends and are left to feel alone." I felt so related to it :'( I spend time with some people, but I think they're not real friends, or maybe they are friends, but they are too busy with their other friends, or they just like ignoring me. :/ Or when I am with them, they don't take me seriously. I just want a friend who will take me seriously because, damn, man, I am a human being, I think, I want to say what I have in mind, how is my world view, etc.... :(
@ramSpiral2500..thats very nice I do hope you were as to find good friends :)
@ramSpiral2500
You are alone because you leave people they don't leave you. (Edited by HalliwellSister for insulting language ).
You want so.thing more than a chat because you look for someone that you will trush and then go .
(Edited by HalliwellSister for attacking language ) .
They have been SIX MONTHS ! and you know what ? Even tho I wish I could hate you or anything I am not ! I am still waiting just for one thing ! To know if you are okay .
So please if you really have a heart deep down just tell me you are okay . Nothing more . That's all I ask .
@energeticAcai9330
i have no idea what happened but it is clear you're upset. I have no idea why but it might be best you connect with a listener.
@ramSpiral2500 Yeah totally! Let's be friends.
@ramSpiral2500
Hi there!
If you want to chat pls feel to message me 
